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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    variety. I don't think he is in love with his girlfriend also.
    No way really?
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Lol wot? XD
    imo, it's like music
    you may have a favourite song that you can play over and over again.
    but the new released songs feel way better to listen too
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    variety. I don't think he is in love with his girlfriend also.
    If not in love then why not just dump her and freely see other girls.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    It actually makes sense, it doesn't but it does
    No, it's too late for oxymoronic sentences.
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    (Original post by alkaline.)
    imo, it's like music
    you may have a favourite song that you can play over and over again.
    but the new released songs feel way better to listen too
    No! His girlfriend is a personnnnn, you can't do that to people!
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Teach eachother new things.

    Love and being inlove is two different things. You wouldn't dare hurt the person you're inlove with because their pain is your pain you'd feel it. Well that's me whenever I'm in that position where I can cheat. You always think how it would affect the person you're with.
    But I'm a female so I don't think with my privates. Males are totally in a different world so I'll never get it. But ok.

    Life is short.

    Have an affair.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    No! His girlfriend is a personnnnn, you can't do that to people!
    You're just a girl with a hole.....What do you know,




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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    No! His girlfriend is a personnnnn, you can't do that to people!
    no but he was talking about how it FEELS to look at a new girls body in a sexual light.
    He's said it's more exhilarating, and it is with music too, they both produce feelings that stimulate the reward pathway.

    Think of it in terms of brain response, newer pleasures feel better...
    with people it can be different yes, but if you're in love with someone otherwise yes it doesn't get boring that's the truth, when have the feelings from the "honeymoon stage" ever lasted (exceptions for people CRAZILY in love), they don't because the principle is the same.
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    Well anyway, this has been lots of fun I thank you all for participating. For those girls with bfs who are reading this then watch out because I could be him.... dun dun dunnnnnnn

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    1) Yes i am in a relationship
    2) Havn't cheated sexually and dont intend to
    3) Sex is great
    4) Sex in a graveyard is top notch.
    5) Trololol
    7) I missed out number 6.

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    (Original post by RiskingItAll)
    You're just a girl with a hole.....What do you know,


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    Okay, boy with hexillion holes....what do you know.
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    Totally serious.
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    (Original post by RiskingItAll)
    Well anyway, this has been lots of fun I thank you all for participating. For those girls with bfs who are reading this then watch out because I could be him.... dun dun dunnnnnnn
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    1) Yes i am in a relationship
    2) Havn't cheated sexually and dont intend to
    3) Sex is great
    4) Sex in a graveyard is top notch.
    5) Trololol
    7) I missed out number 6.

    As long as it's not near where I buried grandma, the pervert.
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    (Original post by RiskingItAll)
    Possibly, seeing a different girl naked is alot more exhilarating than seeing my gf naked. Even if they're not as good looking.
    Is your life boring. Are you always "proper" like a goody two shoes? Sounds like you're having a mid life crisis. You can be bad in other ways.
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    (Original post by alkaline.)
    no but he was talking about how it FEELS to look at a new girls body in a sexual light.
    He's said it's more exhilarating, and it is with music too, they both produce feelings that stimulate the reward pathway.

    Think of it in terms of brain response, newer pleasures feel better...
    with people it can be different yes, but if you're in love with someone otherwise yes it doesn't get boring that's the truth, when have the feelings from the "honeymoon stage" ever lasted (exceptions for people CRAZILY in love), they don't because the principle is the same.
    I know, I see where you're coming from. I just find it odd that you could find someones who you wouldn't generally find attractive....attractive. Just because your looking for something new.

    Y'know?

    I suppose it is a lot more complicated in terms of brain response. I get it.
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Life is short.

    Have an affair.
    You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

    Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

    He may be into the ****'s anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.
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    (Original post by alkaline.)
    imo, it's like music
    you may have a favourite song that you can play over and over again.
    but the new released songs feel way better to listen too
    Do they?
    I always enjoy listening to a song I know well more..one can get sick of it at some point, I guess, but for the most part listening to a new song doesn't feel as great. I like to know what lyrics are coming and the like..
    Who knows what this says about me when considering relationships lol
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    (Original post by frankieboy)
    You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

    Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

    He may be into the ****'s anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.

    http://www.smh.com.au/content/dam/im...7512453925.jpg
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    (Original post by frankieboy)
    You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

    Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

    He may be into the ****'s anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.
    Marry the fling and invite your girlfriend to the wedding :lol:
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    (Original post by 13 1 20 8 42)
    Do they?
    I always enjoy listening to a song I know well more..one can get sick of it at some point, I guess, but for the most part listening to a new song doesn't feel as great. I like to know what lyrics are coming and the like..
    Who knows what this says about me when considering relationships lol
    Classics are classics for a reason I suppose.
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    (Original post by frankieboy)
    You mean "fling" not "affair", no?

    Affair indicates the woman is married doesn't it? Or have I got that wrong.

    He may be into the ****'s anyway, in which case an affair may be appropriate.

    You're right.

    I was just messing about.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Classics are classics for a reason I suppose.
    Honey you know how you always said you'd rather be Jane Austen than Tracey Emin? Now you kind of are
 
 
 
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