Hi
I had a crush that lasted about 1 year. I had never felt so bad for a girl. She became one of my best friends, then I started to have a crush on her and she rejected me. We stayed friends for a while after but I cut her out of my life about 6 months ago. She had a pretty bad temper sometimes and what I accepted from her when I thought I had a chance with her I couldn't accept it after she rejected me.
Anyway, I met another girl a few months later. Right from the start I knew I could easily like her. She became a good friend of mine too. It's a stupid idea to be friends with a crush but it's not like I really had the choice. Basically those 2 girls I met them with a group of friends and they kind of joined us.
I invited her to my place yesterday evening with another (female, not that it really matters) mutual friend. They slept there and we had a really fun weekend. But now that she's gone, I don't feel so great. It's like the other crush, she will never want to date me. I just know it. Should I tell her all that, even though she will most likely reject me, just like the other girl? I was in the exact same situation 2 years ago with her and I still don't know after all that time if it was a good idea to tell her or not. It didn't do any harm but it didn't help me at all either. If I tell her it will be the same. She will say no and we will probably stay friends until I decide it's not worth it to feel so bad just to keep 1 friend and cut her out of my life.
Thank you