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    Guys after you've chatted with a girl you like once is it possible that you become even more shy near her and struggle to talk to her again / even possibly avoid her?
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    If i get the impression that she doesnt like me or want to talk to me then yes
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    If i get the impression that she doesnt like me or want to talk to me then yes
    I Was definitely interested and assumed that it would seem this way. Although he seems more shy now and it has confused me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I Was definitely interested and assumed that it would seem this way. Although he seems more shy now and it has confused me
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I Was definitely interested and assumed that it would seem this way. Although he seems more shy now and it has confused me
    Just say hello
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    Unless it was an awkward conversation then no. Although, to be fair, it is sometimes hard to tell when someone else is feeling uncomfortable.
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    (Original post by Diego Costa)
    Unless it was an awkward conversation then no. Although, to be fair, it is sometimes hard to tell when someone else is feeling uncomfortable.
    I would say he seemed very shy during the conversation but it wasn't uncomfortable. He just seems to have become more shy since we chatted and I wondered if anyone had an explanation for that
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    It may be because he felt you weren't interested? Maybe try messaging him first, or being the one to start a conversation, don't be afraid to be a bit flirty too. If he likes you, it might push up his confidence.

    But, you're gonna get different advice from different guys, this is mine,
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I would say he seemed very shy during the conversation but it wasn't uncomfortable. He just seems to have become more shy since we chatted and I wondered if anyone had an explanation for that
    Is this a guy you like?
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    (Original post by Diego Costa)
    Is this a guy you like?
    Yeah it is. I was sure he liked me too but he seems reluctant to come near me since we chatted last week. Although I still catch him looking at me and making eye contact
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah it is. I was sure he liked me too but he seems reluctant to come near me since we chatted last week. Although I still catch him looking at me and making eye contact
    Tbh it's hard to tell and he could be like this for many reasons, I guess the best you can do is flirt a bit with him and see how he responds.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Guys after you've chatted with a girl you like once is it possible that you become even more shy near her and struggle to talk to her again / even possibly avoid her?
    You might as well move on him or he'll just stay staring at you endlessly
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    I guess it is different for everyone... Would I get more shy? No chance.

    He might just not be interested or even worse decided you are intimidating hence the extra shyness.

    I agree that you will probably need to make the move if you are interested, I know in my shy years I would never make the move and bypassed plenty of opportunities.
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    (Original post by K-Nitro)
    I guess it is different for everyone... Would I get more shy? No chance.

    He might just not be interested or even worse decided you are intimidating hence the extra shyness.

    I agree that you will probably need to make the move if you are interested, I know in my shy years I would never make the move and bypassed plenty of opportunities.
    At first I thought he wasn't interested anymore but then he still makes eye contact and stares which to me seems weird if you weren't interested?

    Why intimidated? I think I was friendly and tried to be chatty. I was going to ask him to hang out when we chatted again but he seems to shy for that now
 
 
 
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