Is it me or is sex overrated for a guy?

Unsure what the bad word filter will knock out, but you are an over aggressive masturbator. The grip and pressure achievable from masturbation will never be met by a vagina, you need to go easy on yourself. Either leave it alone completely, so the only contact it gets is from a vagina, or cut right back and ensure a very loose grip when masturbating.
You will likely find vaginal sex much better than the alternatives......

I did consider this but I don't masturbate very often, only about once or twice a week at most.

I did consider this but I don't masturbate very often, only about once or twice a week at most. So its hard to believe that's causing me to lose sensation but you could be right and I'll definitely continue trying to abstain. When you say I'll start to find vaginal sex better, what do you mean by that? Would it feel better because I would be more sensitive or do you mean it would feel better psychologically?

Again, thank you so much for any advice

I think the thing about having sex with other people is reciprocity - you each give and take. There is nothing hotter than making another person feel things they haven't felt before. Experimenting and trying new things. Learning to control the ending of the experience to coincide the moment.

Do you have a steady girlfriend, or are we talking more casual hookups? Is alcohol usually involved?

That said, I'm extrapolating my own experiences on you and that's not fair. I'm sure there are guys who prefer other kinds of sex to PIV.

I'm female so I can't really comment from a guy's perspective but for what my opinion is worth, this will be a plus for quite a few girls if you are willing to reciprocate with oral sex and other things that don't involve penetrative sex. I hate PIV sex (very uncomfortable for me and I rarely get much our of it), but receiving foreplay plus watching a guy really enjoy what I'm doing to him with oral/hand jobs etc. is super hot and is probably my idea of a perfect sex life tbh lol. Like I would actually much prefer to be in a relationship with a guy like this!



This is still pretty often, tbf. Again, not a guy, but the advice I have heard given to guys by other guys is to abstain from any kind of masturbation for several weeks before trying PIV sex to make it more enjoyable. But honestly, if you are with a girl who doesn't care much for PIV sex (I guarantee than there are plenty of girls like this out there) and whatever you are doing sexually is working for you both, who cares if PIV is not enjoyable?