Hi all,
To explain the details, when I have an erection, I can pull my foreskin back to expose the head, and the head does not get pulled down. However, if I (or my girlfriend) continue to pull the skin back further, the head gets pulled down. At this point I do not feel pain, but I definitely feel a tugging sensation.
However, if the skin gets pulled back suddenly or perhaps from the wrong angle, I do feel a painful sensation in the frenulum. I would estimate this happens perhaps 1 in 10 times when I am having sex.
The only other negative effect is that I do not feel much sensation during oral sex. Although not completely sure whether this is related!
I went to a urologist who said I "would probably get a good outcome" from a frenuloplasty. However I am not sure if I want to book this in. On the one hand it could resolve the above issues. But on the other hand perhaps it could make sex less enjoyable.
If I felt pain 10 out of 10 times, I would obviously go ahead and do the operation. And if it was 0 out of 10 I would not do it. But because it only happens 1 out of 10 times, I am not sure what to choose.
Has anyone had a similar situation, and if so did you find that frenuloplasty made sex feel better or worse?