I flunked out of two Unis trying to live in 'halls'. I am an only child, and have never learned to work in a 'boiler factory'. Every dorm i have ever been in, simulated an active 'boiler factory. I finally got into a 3rd Uni - despite my failing grades, and rented a room from an old retired couple. I was about a 20 minute walk from campus, and i made sure that nobody on campus knew where i lived - because i didn't want any 'drop-ins' a> disturbing my landlords, or b> me!
It worked - i made deans list all 3 quarters i was there - and was able to transfer to a reputable engineering school. I guess that the thing to ask yourself is: "Am i here to run up a big debt, and party, party, party, or am i here to get an education?? After you get a 'salable' degree [you ARE studying something that you can earn a living in, aren't you???], you can party all you want. Cheers & best of luck!!