Don’t like this

I wouldn't like it but I'd realise there was bigger issues

I know and what do you mean by bigger issues?

this is either
a. something mildly annoying
b. something that actually causes your mental health to deteriorate

if it's B I suggest you follow the advice above it's very good advice.

if it's A people are dying, people can't see their dying relatives or attend their funeral get over it

I don’t know

It can disturb the neighbours though because the walls aren’t sound proof so the neighbours can hear it and if it’s upsetting me it can be abuse.

think on it for a while

It's not abusive. Stop being so overdramatic.

I’m not it’s just really frustrating

I get that, but is it really life changing? Your mum shouts at you that the food is done and you don't like it. Mums shout. They're programmed to shout. Just ignore it

I can’t ignore it because she’ll come back up to get me down

So just go down then...

If you go down promptly, then she's got less reason to start screaming and shouting.

But she shouts me everyday and I it frustrates me to point I don’t want to go down

I understand that. But if you keep refusing to go down, she's going to keep shouting. So you're stuck. The only way to stop her shouting is to just go down. So it's your choice - do you want her to stop her shouting, or do you want to keep perpetuating a situation where you dig your heels in and refuse to do as she's asking, which results in her screaming and shouting?

I know which I'd prefer. Your choice though.

I will start going down quicker but she’s still going to shout

Of course she will -she's a mum. But the quicker you go down, the less she'll shout, because she'll have less reason to shout...

I just don’t understand why she can’t just phone me or even come to my room for me

She's not going to ring you - I wouldn't. That's just silly. You don't ring people in the same house...

Yes, she could come into your room to get you, but realistically she's busy, and it's easier for her just to shout for you from downstairs. It's really not that deep.

As I say - she's a mum. And mums like shouting.

I just can’t cope with it anymore, can I move in with you

sorry, I don't think that would work.

You could pre-empt this situation, and when you smell that the food is about done, just be downstairs - not necessarily in the same room, but about. She'd have less reason to start shouting for you then - or at least not so loudly.

It’s just my mum shouting across the house when my dinner or lunch is ready or if she needs me, it happens everyday without fail a number of times, it’s just gets on my and it really gets under my skin. It’s just the way she shouts my name as well because its just in an loud aggressive manner and she does it really loud. I told her just to phone me and she says she is not doing that but I just can’t stand it. I just hate being shouted across the house at but the worse thing is when I am literally just entering the kitchen but she’s still shouting me to my bedroom and that really pisses me off so sometimes I just go back upstairs. It’s bad for the neighbours because I’m pretty sure they can hear the shouting through the wall. I know it might happen in other houses but I really don’t like it and I find it really annoying. I don’t even want to have her food anyway but she doesn’t let me cook myself or anything because I thought I’ll start cooking myself to stop the shouting but my mum stops me so I have no choice but to eat her food and get shouted at across the house. I sometimes like to cry out of frustration when she shouts me because I can’t stand it, I just can’t.