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Whats the point in getting married in a registry office and having a cheap wedding? I would rather not get married. Like whats the point???

Reply 1

GabiAbi84

Well...For some people the point of getting married is to get married...not how much they spend to do so....

If you don’t want to, don’t do it-but others can do as they please. Doesn’t make them less married.

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 2

Rum Ham

When it comes to the importance of where you get married rather than actually getting married to the person you supposedly love then it isn't a marriage you want, its just a wedding. I got married in a registry office and wore 3 quid purple dress from a charity shop and it was one of the best days of our lives. We could have had a fancy wedding if we wished but it wasn't us and to be honest, I would grudge spending all that money on one day when we could have used it towards a new car, decorating our home etc.

If you have the money to have a big wedding and its what you want then go for it but the main point should always be the fact you are entering a marriage, not just having a wedding. A wedding is nothing more than a party pretty much, its the days after it that matter more.

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 3

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Original post by Katie4ever

Whats the point in getting married in a registry office and having a cheap wedding? I would rather not get married. Like whats the point???

To me I think big weddings that cost a fortune are a stupid waste of money, the marriage is about the relationship not giving everyone a party that's overpriced.