Where do you get your personality from?Watch
Well.... I dunno lol but everyone's personality is based on pregnancy care, early childhood development, experiences, environment, culture, education and societal standards, as well as horoscopes.
I mean I have a personality disorder- trauma, piss poor parenting and bad genetics.
When you are born, you're a blank slate. You learn how to deal with emotions from your parents. If they do a bad job, or for other environmental reasons this gets disrupted, that's how you develop personality issues. And this happens from day 0 of when you are born.
You start learning to speak when you're about 1 or 2 years old, and you develop most of that up until about the age of 20. Imagine trying to re-learn all of that at the age of 30, but with different grammar. That's how I like to compare trying to fix a personality disorder, except that often is even harder. It depends a lot on at what age your upbringing got screwed up.
Some people are more susceptible to developing some personality types than others. But ultimately it's your upbringing that gives that the final push it needs in that direction. Some people just need more push than others.