^That's true haha. It all depends on what they're pointing out that they think is weird. An example of this was when I was headbanging at a rock concert(I really don't know how that's weird),and someone called me weird. I thought it was funny.
It can be a good thing yes but I think the intention is usually to offend, which is why it's offensive. A bit like calling someone a ****** really
but im my case my judo instructor thinks im weird seriusly, i did a kick wrong and automaticly said 'oops i can't kick like that im just weird' and she replyed 'thats true, i figured that you were weird out ages ago' then another time i said i was confused at what she's just explained and she said 'nothing usual there mark' but its not that she hates me she really does think im weird! shes not insulting just saying what she thinks
but im my case my judo instructor thinks im weird seriusly, i did a kick wrong and automaticly said 'oops i can't kick like that im just weird' and she replyed 'thats true, i figured that you were weird out ages ago' then another time i said i was confused at what she's just explained and she said 'nothing usual there' but its not that she hates me she really does think im weird! shes not insulting just saying what she thinks
theres an example from experience
Well in this case I don't think her intention is to offend
no i know for a fact she wasn't since i used to be really shy when i first joined and would do weird stuff like stand at the side complaining i was ill for half a session cause i was too embarrased to join in she wondered why i went though if i didnt want to do the stuff but i was just to shy every1 was really good! i seriously acted like a r*tard it didn't help that i fancied her