The Student Room Group

Does Brown Guys Living in England like Brown Girls?

i am a brown girl (indian)
my crush is indian too , and he is very involved with his culture

I want to know if brown guys like brown girls or just white girls

Scroll to see replies

Some do, some don't.

/end thread
It depends on the specific guy.
Different guys often have very different dealbreakers and preferences.
Just as different girls do.
Original post by Anonymous
i am a brown girl (indian)
my crush is indian too , and he is very involved with his culture

I want to know if brown guys like brown girls or just white girls

Yeah, it's pretty common in my opinion. I mean, my girlfriend is white British and she actually cheated on me with an Indian dude.
Reply 4
Original post by londonmyst
It depends on the specific guy.
Different guys often have very different dealbreakers and preferences.
Just as different girls do.
I've checked the recent census fo generation Z groups. Indian men date out with white women and other women almost 20 to 1 compared to Indian. If you look up the statistics on the UK census bureau, 14% of generation z Indian men marry out and 2% of generation z Indian women age 16 to 24 are marrying out. Indian men tend to be an ideal choice for not just Indian women but also white and black women in my town to "settle" down with. Less likely to cheat, better fathers and less drunk too, good providers as well.
(edited 11 months ago)
Reply 5
Indian men born and brought up in Britain especially 3rd generation gravitate towards middle class white females. Its not due to color or anything but many have told me that there is no point in dating a British born Indian girl if its just a brown skin girl that has the same qualities and drinking habits as any other white girl.

There is a lot of of 35 and older British born Indian men with 35 and older British white women. Basically groups who don't party as much as the 22 year olds. Those football moms who take their kids to ball games are seen with Indian husbands a lot in my town.

Indian men who are freshy and recent arrivals stick with Indian women who are recent arrivals however a few of them marry those liberal "we are the world and sunshine" type white women who would dye their hair red if given a chance

I think the Muslim Indians tend to stick with each other more than the Hindu Indians.
Reply 6
Original post by RabiaAhmed
Indian men born and brought up in Britain especially 3rd generation gravitate towards middle class white females. Its not due to color or anything but many have told me that there is no point in dating a British born Indian girl if its just a brown skin girl that has the same qualities and drinking habits as any other white girl.

There is a lot of of 35 and older British born Indian men with 35 and older British white women. Basically groups who don't party as much as the 22 year olds. Those football moms who take their kids to ball games are seen with Indian husbands a lot in my town.

Indian men who are freshy and recent arrivals stick with Indian women who are recent arrivals however a few of them marry those liberal "we are the world and sunshine" type white women who would dye their hair red if given a chance

I think the Muslim Indians tend to stick with each other more than the Hindu Indians.
thanks but he is first gen and so am I...
also he is very into the culture and no we are not hindus , we are indian Christians , if that makes any difference

pretty sure he likes white girls cause he was born here so he obviously finds them more attractive ig
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous #1
i am a brown girl (indian)
my crush is indian too , and he is very involved with his culture

I want to know if brown guys like brown girls or just white girls
yes bro, i'm brown and i've lived in manchester my whole life. I've not because 'whitewashed' at all or anything my only type is brown girls.
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous #2
yes bro, i'm brown and i've lived in manchester my whole life. I've not because 'whitewashed' at all or anything my only type is brown girls.
thanks , makes me hopeful as my crush ( the guy ) is very cultured , smart asf , Christian and very respectful towards my parents too xx (hehehehe)
Original post by Anonymous
thanks , makes me hopeful as my crush ( the guy ) is very cultured , smart asf , Christian and very respectful towards my parents too xx (hehehehe)
Hey! How'd it go?? I am lit in your position?! I am a brown indian christian and so is my crush except that he is born in the uk bc his parents are mixed (one is white the other is brown) he is a little bit whitewashed but we get along quite well especially with Christianity and we like other general things. Not sure if I should ask him out? or let him? or wait? Our mums talk alot about indian culture tho x
Reply 10
Original post by Anonymous
Hey! How'd it go?? I am lit in your position?! I am a brown indian christian and so is my crush except that he is born in the uk bc his parents are mixed (one is white the other is brown) he is a little bit whitewashed but we get along quite well especially with Christianity and we like other general things. Not sure if I should ask him out? or let him? or wait? Our mums talk alot about indian culture tho x

i cant ask him out cause i am not allowed to date lol x neither can he , because of very cultured views.
but you can ask him out because in your case , he is half white so he can probably date so i think you should ask him out !
i am waiting till uni lmaoo ( because i cant date , i am not that ready to have bf i think and my parents would be probably okay by then bcoz i would be like 21+ lol - potential husband) , we will probably be in same uni for medicine ( he wants to be a doctor :love:)
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
Hey! How'd it go?? I am lit in your position?! I am a brown indian christian and so is my crush except that he is born in the uk bc his parents are mixed (one is white the other is brown) he is a little bit whitewashed but we get along quite well especially with Christianity and we like other general things. Not sure if I should ask him out? or let him? or wait? Our mums talk alot about indian culture tho x
the thing is , he is 2 years older than me so i am kinda cooked :mmm:
Original post by Anonymous
i am a brown girl (indian)
my crush is indian too , and he is very involved with his culture
I want to know if brown guys like brown girls or just white girls

it depends a lot.
I mean personally as a brown guy I am not racially exclusive in who I would date, whether you are brown white or anything else it depends on the same factors, personality, looks, ambition, intelligence etc.

I mean there r definitely reasons for why you would feel as though brown guys constantly chase white girls, there is certainly the factor of the 'image of beauty' being presented in the UK, but also the fact that loads of brown guys feel as though white girls just generally find us unattractive (be this irrational or not), so it means that they chase them, since we often want what we fear we can't have.

Overall, I assume your brown as well so FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES NOT ON RELATIONSHIPS!!!😂😂
Original post by Anonymous
the thing is , he is 2 years older than me so i am kinda cooked :mmm:


Oh my gosh me too!! Except that I’m 18 and I’ve finished education so it’s kind of okay
How old are both of you?
Reply 15
Original post by KingsleyArtha1
it depends a lot.
I mean personally as a brown guy I am not racially exclusive in who I would date, whether you are brown white or anything else it depends on the same factors, personality, looks, ambition, intelligence etc.
I mean there r definitely reasons for why you would feel as though brown guys constantly chase white girls, there is certainly the factor of the 'image of beauty' being presented in the UK, but also the fact that loads of brown guys feel as though white girls just generally find us unattractive (be this irrational or not), so it means that they chase them, since we often want what we fear we can't have.
Overall, I assume your brown as well so FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES NOT ON RELATIONSHIPS!!!😂😂

for me attraction is decent looks + smart (intellectual) + Christian + loves family
Reply 16
Original post by Anonymous
Oh my gosh me too!! Except that I’m 18 and I’ve finished education so it’s kind of okay
your lucky lol i still have 2 years haha
Original post by Anonymous
for me attraction is decent looks + smart (intellectual) + Christian + loves family


Same
Original post by Anonymous
your lucky lol i still have 2 years haha


Lol but I don’t think I’ll make a move. Might just leave it and see what happens. All in God’s hands yk
Original post by Anonymous
for me attraction is decent looks + smart (intellectual) + Christian + loves family

interesting u say that bc the vast majority of brown guys aren't christian so if that's wt u fins attractive it will automatically be a bit harder for u but I'm sure there's a community of Brown Christians out there

Quick Reply