So do blond guys only like girls who have similar traits as them or what?

Ok I got to admit that I’m semi-ranting. Every guy that has shown interest in me are all dark haired. But I’m not interested in them at all. Personally, I’m only interested in guys with lighter features(especially hair) and although girls have the tendency to adore the “dark tall handsome” archetype. I find most guys labelled as such boring and I rarely feel any attraction towards them. (Personal opinion, most gals will disagree dw) I don’t think I’m ugly and not to sound vain, I think I am decently attractive. But after a recent rejection, I feel as if I’ve lost all self esteem. FYI, the guy who rejected me has wavy blond hair and blue eyes about 5’8 and I have medium brown wavy-curly hair and brown eyes and about 5’6. We’re both white (although I am also a quarter Chinese but I don’t look Asian at all). I told my friend the story and she just said that it’s because blond guys just aren’t interested in brunettes and they only like girls who look like them. So I was wondering if y’all agree with this.

So tired of these silly threads about ''does x nationality/ethnicity only like y nationality/ethnicity''. No group is a monolith, people are individuals and have different tastes. Honestly so bizarre that this has to keep being spelled out for people on here.

Not at all!!Everyone has different taste, and it can and does change depending on the person you meet. You might start off saying that you only like blond guys and then get to know someone who is the complete opposite but who ticks all the other more important boxes, so that you end up falling for him. And the same thing goes in the other direction.

So tired of these silly threads about ''does x nationality/ethnicity only like y nationality/ethnicity''. No group is a monolith, people are individuals and have different tastes. Honestly so bizarre that this has to keep being spelled out for people on here.

We're not going to make it are we?

People I mean

Sorry, I know what you mean. It’s just that previously when I wrote the post I was feeling a bit extra down. I guess it was my way of coping with rejection by blaming my failure with hair colour.