Wanna date

I wanna date this girl at uni
We’re both fourth years and the last time I saw her was at high school
How do I go about dating her or even just hook up with her

Reply 1

Old Skool Freak

Original post by Anonymous

I wanna date this girl at uni
We’re both fourth years and the last time I saw her was at high school
How do I go about dating her or even just hook up with her

1) Walk up to her when you see her (and she's not looking too busy)
2) Smile and say, "Hey, I remember you from school, what are you up to now?"
3) See how she responds, and go from there.

Is life now really that complicated?!?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Old Skool Freak

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could affect my relations at work.

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Would require effort

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Could just keep using escorts instead

Reply 3

Old Skool Freak

Don't see how... you said you were at Uni, not work... so I don't see how that even comes into it.

Would require effort

Well nothing comes without some effort. If you want to get the girl, then you have to make some effort. Nothing comes for free in this world.

Could just keep using escorts instead

If that's the life you want to live, then carry on. Just make sure they're not trafficked or on drugs (because knowingly using either makes you a rapist in the eyes of the law).

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by Old Skool Freak

Don't see how... you said you were at Uni, not work... so I don't see how that even comes into it.

Well nothing comes without some effort. If you want to get the girl, then you have to make some effort. Nothing comes for free in this world.

If that's the life you want to live, then carry on. Just make sure they're not trafficked or on drugs (because knowingly using either makes you a rapist in the eyes of the law).

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i only go for escorts which are high end

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It’s medicine - could risk a fitness to practice hearing

Reply 5

StriderHort

Original post by Anonymous

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It’s medicine - could risk a fitness to practice hearing

What part? Asking an old school friend how they are, or exploititively associating with sex workers?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

How am I doing the second part?
I only said I’d consider only paying for sex for high end escorts

Reply 7

StriderHort

Original post by Anonymous

How am I doing the second part?
I only said I’d consider only paying for sex for high end escorts

You said you were already doing it. Adding the words 'high end' doesn't make it any less dodgy or sleazy. You're no 'better' than the guy getting tugged off behind the pub bins for a half bottle yea?

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by StriderHort

You said you were already doing it. Adding the words 'high end' doesn't make it any less dodgy or sleazy. You're no 'better' than the guy getting tugged off behind the pub bins for a half bottle yea?

I pay like £400 for 15 mins by a professional escort not some street hoe

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by StriderHort

You said you were already doing it. Adding the words 'high end' doesn't make it any less dodgy or sleazy. You're no 'better' than the guy getting tugged off behind the pub bins for a half bottle yea?

I wouldn’t mind the latter either as long as we are both happy and consenting but professionals in central London provide a more enjoyable service we are both happy with and want to do

Reply 10

StriderHort

Original post by Anonymous

I pay like £400 for 15 mins by a professional escort not some street hoe

And I just told you there is no substantial difference. You're just another John with woman issues.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by StriderHort

And I just told you there is no substantial difference. You're just another John with woman issues.

Well we’re both happy with it and I enjoy it so why not

Reply 12

StriderHort

Original post by Anonymous

Well we’re both happy with it and I enjoy it so why not

Well why come here moaning about women you want to date but don't? What are you hoping to do beyond waste time?

Reply 13

londonmyst

Have a casual chat with her at uni and see if she remembers you.
If she is polite and shows interest in having a conversation, you can then then find out whether she is single or interested in being friends.

Do bear in mind that most of the women who have never worked in the sex industry selling sex are not willing to consider dating guys that they know have a history of paying women sex workers to sell them intimate sexual services.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by StriderHort

And I just told you there is no substantial difference. You're just another John with woman issues.

I have borderline personality and my gf cheated on me

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

You can’t just make it happen, she might not even like you. Try to approach her in a friendly way first, if you’re serious about wanting to date her than it shouldn’t just be about hooking up with her.