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My crush just smiled at me but he ignored me before

So there’s this guy I have a crush on. I switched maths class in September so I was like the new girl, I wasn’t introduced or anything I just sat down and no one cared. In the second week, this boy turns around and looks at me and then at the end of lesson turns around and looks at me again. I was confused because no one turned around and looked at me as to who I was, but I was like maybe it’s because he didn’t come in the first week so he probably just realised now that there’s a new girl.

Then whenever the guy next to me would ask the teacher for doubt my crush would use it as an excuse to turn around and look at me.

Sometimes he turns around and looks at me at random times but that’s only a few times most of the time he does it because the guy next to me asks teacher to come help him so uses that as an excuse to look at me. He only started doing this after I walked past him and gave him a death stare this one time,( which was like a few days after he tried talking to me twice) after this one time he started doing this btw. One time it was home time and he didn’t really do anything. But before he was about to go to his usual way home he stopped walking and turned around and started looking for me. Once he saw me he turned around and continued walking


Now for 1-2 months he ignored me he never looks at me never really paid attention to me. He would turn around and look at me he would just go about his own business but this also could be because the seating plan changed and I sit right at the front so he can’t turn around and look at me even if he wanted to. In general he does nothing now when I look at him across the room and stuff. I turned around and looked at him and he avoided eye contact and when I walked past him he avoided again. Then he stopped walking and started looking for me again. But I don’t understand why. After that I stopped liking him because he clearly isn’t showing interest like he used to

So I stopped liking him and now today we had a maths exam in a huge hall and I walk out from where I put my stuff and he comes from the other side with a smile on his face looking at me, like it was literally directly at me I saw his face with a proper smile to himself but looked at me I was so confused smh

I don’t understand why because he ignored me for like 2 whole months.

Now you might think he’s shy but he clearly isn’t shy if he turned around and looked at me 5-6 times in the first week I tried to make it obvious I liked him. He clearly isn’t shy to turn around and but into a conversation me and a guy we’re having asking what I said when he didn’t even know me.

So I don’t know. Does he like me or is he just idk
Reply 1
well... do YOU still like him? And when he tried talking to you before, did u ignore him? Maybe he thought that u weren't interested or that he was making you uncomfortable cz he's really dense?
If you do still like and and he's showing interest again then maybe u should go up to him and say everything that u've said here^
It's better to just talk to him than try understanding his behavior cz he sounds like a confusing guy :/
Who knows? You guys might end up becoming a couple instantly after ur talk! Orrrr it could be something enirelyy different! (Now am kinda invested in this lol so if u do talk to him then plsssss tell me how it wenttt)
Reply 2
Original post by Voxanne
well... do YOU still like him? And when he tried talking to you before, did u ignore him? Maybe he thought that u weren't interested or that he was making you uncomfortable cz he's really dense?
If you do still like and and he's showing interest again then maybe u should go up to him and say everything that u've said here^
It's better to just talk to him than try understanding his behavior cz he sounds like a confusing guy :/
Who knows? You guys might end up becoming a couple instantly after ur talk! Orrrr it could be something enirelyy different! (Now am kinda invested in this lol so if u do talk to him then plsssss tell me how it wenttt)

Lol thanks but based on what I said do you think he likes me?

Yeah he tried speaking to me before I made it obvious I liked him he just turned around cus he sits in front of me and was like what did u just say and I said nothing then he turned around but then I felt bad and I told him what I said lol but that’s it and I remember asking him for help with a question, if I get specific I really feel like people will know who I am. But yeah

Do you think he likes me form what I said and thanks lol
Reply 3
Original post by Voxanne
well... do YOU still like him? And when he tried talking to you before, did u ignore him? Maybe he thought that u weren't interested or that he was making you uncomfortable cz he's really dense?
If you do still like and and he's showing interest again then maybe u should go up to him and say everything that u've said here^
It's better to just talk to him than try understanding his behavior cz he sounds like a confusing guy :/
Who knows? You guys might end up becoming a couple instantly after ur talk! Orrrr it could be something enirelyy different! (Now am kinda invested in this lol so if u do talk to him then plsssss tell me how it wenttt)

I’m in a bigger situation now and since u want to know all the tea please read the thread I put in the link below and tel me ur answer because now two of my ex crushes are showing signs that they could like me and I’m so confused. Which ex crush likes me

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7423253
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous #1
Lol thanks but based on what I said do you think he likes me?

Yeah he tried speaking to me before I made it obvious I liked him he just turned around cus he sits in front of me and was like what did u just say and I said nothing then he turned around but then I felt bad and I told him what I said lol but that’s it and I remember asking him for help with a question, if I get specific I really feel like people will know who I am. But yeah

Do you think he likes me form what I said and thanks lol

People are veryy unpredictable! There was a guy in my class who I never spoke to but then this one time I saw him with a baby (around 2 years old) and he was the most adorablee baby I had EVER seen!! (ahh this reminded me of him againn! I LOVE BABIES)
So... ehm... afterwards... I kept looking over at that guy in class cz I wanted to ask him about the babyyy! I ended up starting a casual conversation with him the day after then asked him about the baby (turns out that was his nephew!) he was super nice about it and let us meet! (He really was the cutest baby everr)
ANYWAy! What I meant with this story is that different behaviors can interpreted in lots of different ways and it's very hard to tell (especially through just one person's pov) what it actually means. So like I said~ just straight up go to him and ask "Oi! do u like me or nah?"
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous #1
I’m in a bigger situation now and since u want to know all the tea please read the thread I put in the link below and tel me ur answer because now two of my ex crushes are showing signs that they could like me and I’m so confused. Which ex crush likes me

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7423253

That makes it sound like they all like u lol (I mean~ its not impossible)
U could just ask them all out (atleast one of them will say yes)
But if they all say yes then... poly?👀
Reply 6
Original post by Voxanne
That makes it sound like they all like u lol (I mean~ its not impossible)
U could just ask them all out (atleast one of them will say yes)
But if they all say yes then... poly?👀

Omg stop which one could like me the most from what u said, ur actually so useful cus literally no one replies to any of the threads or even if they things it’s really useless so thanks girly lol
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous #1
Omg stop which one could like me the most from what u said, ur actually so useful cus literally no one replies to any of the threads or even if they things it’s really useless so thanks girly lol

Am glad you found it useful 😭
I would think the first guy probably likes you the most but at the same time he also sounds like someone who just doesn't know how to get along with girls (maybe hes from a family of all boys or sm haha)
Try to notice if he just avoids girls in general and if he doesn't have any female friends, cz he could very well just be super shy around girls
But if u see him chatting with other girls just fine then there coulddd be something special about you! (most likely a crush)

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