A Basic Men's Guide to Success with Women

I disagree with quite a lot of this.

Long hair- Why should they change it just to suit girls? I know plenty of girls who prefer guys with long hair.

Define comedy tshirts? As in cartoon ones? If so, I happen to love these ones.

Glasses look good on the vast majority of guys and advising them to get contacts because it will help them with girls is a bit ridiculous to be honest.

Don't be too keen? The attitude you are going for is "I want you, but If you aren't interested I'll go after another girl instead". Wrong, wrong, wrong. That gives the impression that the girl isn't anything special. Also gives the impression the guy is a player.

Probably right on the jeans, its a good general rule however.

Black tshirts because they are shapeless, dark and therefore generally look like you are trying to hide. There is a reason they are so incredibly popular with the world of warcraft / games workshop / fat nerd stereotype, and its the same reason you shouldnt wear them.

It's better to be seen as a player than needy. Every single time.

Players get laid, and like it or not girls are programmed to like guys that other girls like.


Simple experiment. Man in a restaurant with a bunch of people, in the corner sharpening a knife. Looking out and watching everyone... what do you think of him? Creepy right.

Okay now surround him with a bunch of girls who are laughing, having fun and flirting with him... now what is he? The cook of course!!

That's not what I was saying though. I was comparing "Mr Nice Guy" or a shy guy with a player. I would pick a guy that smiles at me, maybe blushing a little due to shyness over the guy that comes up and immediately tries to feel me up/use a ridiculous line. Maybe it's just me.

Any guy who immediately starts feeling you up or uses a pick up line is an idiot.


How about the guy that smiles, comes over and just say hi, whats your name? That's the best guy.

As a general rule girls, any guy that approaches you in a nightclub and asks your name is almost certainly a dickhead and should be avoided at all costs.

The guy at the start is a player. The second guy could be great.

Simple experiment. Man in a restaurant with a bunch of people, in the corner sharpening a knife. Looking out and watching everyone... what do you think of him? Creepy right.

Okay now surround him with a bunch of girls who are laughing, having fun and flirting with him... now what is he? The cook of course!!

I knew it wouldn't be long before the self-confessed pick up master, n0c0ntrlol appeared.

Any guy who immediately starts feeling you up or uses a pick up line is an idiot.

How about the guy that smiles, comes over and just say hi, whats your name? That's the best guy.

How about - there is no guide!!!

Women all have different tastes as do men, some will like exactly what you state, some will like a more grizzled manly man not into the metrosexual personal grooming.

Some women like overconfident bad boys, and some like shy and reclusive types.

So the be yourself is about the only good bit of info on there! If someone cannot accept you for that then sorry for the cliche but they are imply not worth your time as they are shallow.