Feeling a bit beaten up at the minute- Friday afternoons aren't the best time to take in around 2 hours worth of lesson criticisms in total! All completely fair and I know it IS stuff I need to improve on. But left feeling totally awful about it all.
I think the overriding thing today that got me was that all 3 classes were relatively subdued and controllable, but I pitched them all a bit too high. I was most impressed and annoyed by the class in lesson 1- I spent Tuesday just trying my hardest to get them to shut up, but today they were fine and I felt OK at the end of the lesson, considering how worried I was about it as I was presenting them with new vocab so they needed to listen. Also one thing I've not been too good with is active presentation of new vocab- in fact my very first attempt with them a few weeks ago with the old 'I say, class repeats' thing was a complete disaster, ran out of the lesson almost crying. So I was elated that I was able to do that today, having avoided that kind of thing since. But the class teacher was quite negative about everything & just told me point blank that I need to be faster presenting the vocab. And yes I do, but it would have just been so nice to hear something like how much better behaved they were today or how it was good that I was able to present the vocab to them but just need to work on getting it faster.
He's never really positive with me about things either- he did my mentor session today because my mentor didn't have time to meet with me this week, and he just ended up telling me how he would have done things, I think he said one positive thing after about an hour and a half. His classes are difficult, and I do often end up screwing things up and beating myself up about it. So to then be subjected to hearing it all again without any positives thrown in is pretty damn soul destroying
He's been told about it as well, I mentioned it to my course tutor, who told my mentor, who said she had a word with him but this is clearly just the way he is.
Fortunately my mentor is fantastic, she makes a point of saying what went well, as well as what to improve on, without it just being "oh well I would have done it like this". Sadly I only teach 2 lessons of hers per week, 3 if it's week 1, and she's part time so isn't around much to just chat and whatever, this other guy is the one I spend most time with.
Oh dear this turned into a bit of a rant! But I needed it, never seem to get to speak to anyone in person about stuff- I met up with the other MFL trainees last Friday I was pretty left out, the 2 guys had brought their girlfriends along, and the 2 other girls who showed up are much louder than me so just ended up speaking the whole night while I was trying not to fall asleep in my dinner! And then everyone else I know isn't a teacher, and many of them also think teachers have the easiest job in the world so can't talk to them either.