What is worse Oral Sex or Vaginal Sex?

Reply 20

fojodef

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Original post by ¯\(°_o)/¯

I <3 naughty religious girls.

I'd be pretty pissed, either way.

Neither situation is ideal.

so you dont think one act is more ignominious than the other?

Reply 21

Carpe Vinum

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Original post by Mad Vlad

Perhaps I've just been exposed to a bad selection of vaginas, but in my experience, they're just not attractive pieces of kit. :erm:

I wouldn't really say either sex's genitals are particularly pretty, but they're not there to be pretty :tongue:

Reply 22

fojodef

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I sympathise with this

Reply 23

Pussy Galore

Original post by iammeyouareyou

Vaginas are your gateway into the world. That's pretty amazing if you ask me!

yeah but yours is minging :wink:

Reply 24

Zarek

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I think idiotic posts of this nature are the worst personally..

Reply 25

fojodef

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Original post by Zarek

I think idiotic posts of this nature are the worst personally..

yet you engage with them.

Reply 26

joker12345

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I just don't get why people insist on ignoring the question or saying 'oh it wouldn't matter, she cheated either way' etc and evading. If you can't answer then why post?
Anyway, based on your examples I'd say sex is worse in the cheating instance, sucking dick is worse in the sextape of mother instance.

Reply 27

iammeyouareyou

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Original post by Pussy Galore

yeah but yours is minging :wink:

You will never know...

Reply 28

Blutooth

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Original post by joker12345

I just don't get why people insist on ignoring the question or saying 'oh it wouldn't matter, she cheated either way' etc and evading. If you can't answer then why post?
Anyway, based on your examples I'd say sex is worse in the cheating instance, sucking dick is worse in the sextape of mother instance.

Completely agree with that.

Reply 29

jam278

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Oral clearly.

Allow walking in on your girl sucking off some guy, that's demoralising. Like they're both bad but sucking off a guy when she has a boyfriend basically means that she's that guys bitch.

That's the same mouth you kiss bro...

Reply 30

fojodef

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Original post by joker12345

I just don't get why people insist on ignoring the question or saying 'oh it wouldn't matter, she cheated either way' etc and evading. If you can't answer then why post?
Anyway, based on your examples I'd say sex is worse in the cheating instance, sucking dick is worse in the sextape of mother instance.

Original post by Blutooth

Completely agree with that.

interesting? how so.

Reply 31

lilymoran

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or to put it another way, if your girlfriend cheated on you which is worse if she sucked another guy off or if she had sex with him?

Are you Bill Clinton?

Reply 32

Blutooth

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Original post by fojodef

interesting? how so.

Because giving oral online is something only pornstars do.Aside from that, It also seems more degrading if it's being filmed. However, vaginal sex seems to be a more intimate and thus acceptable act.

Vaginal sex with someone else means my gf could get preg, which I woudlnt want.

Reply 33

fojodef

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Original post by Blutooth

Because giving oral online is something only pornstars do.Aside from that, It also seems more degrading if it's being filmed. However, vaginal sex seems to be a more intimate and thus acceptable act.

Vaginal sex with someone else means my gf could get preg, which I woudlnt want.

most people use condoms for vaginal sex i've never heard of any1 i know who has worn a condom to receive a blow job.

you think vaginal sex is more intimate than oral sex? im baffled ...

Reply 34

Tyrion_Lannister

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Original post by fojodef

most people use condoms for vaginal sex i've never heard of any1 i know who has worn a condom to receive a blow job.

you think vaginal sex is more intimate than oral sex? im baffled ...

You think oral is intimate?

Reply 35

fojodef

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Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

You think oral is intimate?

yes.
its a selfless act. some people obviously get a kick out of it. but its you putting in effort to give your lover an orgasm. its not a shared pleasure in the same way vaginal sex is.

not only that but in terms of hygiene we tend to wash our own hands after touching our own genitalia and especially before we eat. so to go and put someone else's genitals directly in your mouth is quite a big deal.

not only that but the act of getting on your knees. to submit. is a gesture widely known across cultures as a sign of worship and submission.

the act of oral sex is you are put your face. the thing that represents you on to the most 1 of the most vulgar part of your partners body.

i dunno screw it. i dont even know why im putting the effort in trying to explain this. finding a women who you would be proud to make the mother of your child is gonna be impossible amongst this seaman and urine gargling bunch.

Reply 36

Tyrion_Lannister

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Original post by fojodef

yes.
its a selfless act. some people obviously get a kick out of it. but its you putting in effort to give your lover an orgasm. its not a shared pleasure in the same way vaginal sex is.

not only that but in terms of hygiene we tend to wash our own hands after touching our own genitalia and especially before we eat. so to go and put someone else's genitals directly in your mouth is quite a big deal.

not only that but the act of getting on your knees. to submit. is a gesture widely known across cultures as a sign of worship and submission.

the act of oral sex is you are put your face. the thing that represents you on to the most 1 of the most vulgar part of your partners body.

i dunno screw it. i dont even know why im putting the effort in trying to explain this. finding a women who you would be proud to make the mother of your child is gonna be impossible amongst this seaman and urine gargling bunch.

Who looks at their partners genitals as vulgar and gross? And you don't only have to get on your knees, the recirving partner can be very submissive. Can't say anymore or I'll get banned

But that to me sounds as if you have a very old fashioned very vanilla view about sex

Reply 37

fojodef

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Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

Who looks at their partners genitals as vulgar and gross? And you don't only have to get on your knees, the recirving partner can be very submissive. Can't say anymore or I'll get banned

But that to me sounds as if you have a very old fashioned very vanilla view about sex

my point was not about the technicality of. oh you dont like getting on your knees lets try this new crazy position. my point was a comment on the symbolism behind the act.

and my point is that it is more intimate because a strangers genitals are vulgar and gross. but your partners are not.

given the choice most normal people would rather greet vulgar genitals with their own genitals rather than stuffing the alien mucus dumper in your mouth.

its quite a natural instinct to not want to put unhygienic or odd things in your mouth. its natures way of stopping you from eating things that will poison you or make you sick.

plus your face is your identity. its the thing you use to great your family with. kiss your children and parents with. its what represents you and your identity.

id be very worried about someones mental state if they believed their genitals were comparable.

thats why if a promiscuous act deemed shameful by society was to be carried out by me. i would use the part of me most associated with sex and have sex with the person. my family doesn't see my genitals. they are private. so if i was to do something "naughty" id use them rather than my face. the thing my family is proud of and has pictures of around the house.

if i was a father and came across some revenge porn sex tape that my daughter featured in where she had a 1 night stand with a guy. i would be much more traumatised to see the face i thought was so precious and sacred to me gagging over some possibly std ridden possibly poor hygiene god knows where its been strangers penis.