Bf doesn’t feel pull past 2” in
Hey there… I’m looking for some advice on what I can do to help improve my bf and my sex life. He says that he only really gets feeling at the tip of his **** and when we have sex he can’t feel much after 2” or so deep. Could this be vaginal tenting that’s causing this? I’m doing squats and have an electric vaginal kegel exerciser to help, but I don’t know if there is anything else.
I have had 2 kids (both C-section and neither entered the birth canal).
Sometimes he has gotten so frustrated by lack of feeling he looses his erection
I fully realize it is possibly not only me and could be something with him as well, but I wanted to start with what I can improve first.
I have had 2 kids (both C-section and neither entered the birth canal).
Sometimes he has gotten so frustrated by lack of feeling he looses his erection
I fully realize it is possibly not only me and could be something with him as well, but I wanted to start with what I can improve first.
I realise this is a sensitive topic and some people can get upset with detail, so happy to move to PM in confidence if that helps.
Have you tried tensing while he is inside you - in effect you doing a kegel exercise? That can really help.
It's always tighter going in, that's normal. The sensitive part of the penis is the head. Try not going as deep?
Do you use lube? Is he smaller in the girth/length department? Circumcised?
Maybe google coital alignment technique - where the penis is rubbed against the front wall of the vagina and see if that provides more contact. Get the Karma Sutra out and see if any positions better than others.
The more turned on the woman becomes the longer, wider and wetter the vagina becomes. Against usual advice, maybe try less foreplay. Avoid anything up there before penetration as fingers/toys etc will stretch things out and make it looser.
Sex can be many things, no reason vaginal intercourse cannot be a part of this, even if he needs something else to finish. Worth discussing his porn and masturbation habits as if he plays with himself with a tight grip, no vagina will ever compete.
Not sure how helpful that is?
Have you tried tensing while he is inside you - in effect you doing a kegel exercise? That can really help.
It's always tighter going in, that's normal. The sensitive part of the penis is the head. Try not going as deep?
Do you use lube? Is he smaller in the girth/length department? Circumcised?
Maybe google coital alignment technique - where the penis is rubbed against the front wall of the vagina and see if that provides more contact. Get the Karma Sutra out and see if any positions better than others.
The more turned on the woman becomes the longer, wider and wetter the vagina becomes. Against usual advice, maybe try less foreplay. Avoid anything up there before penetration as fingers/toys etc will stretch things out and make it looser.
Sex can be many things, no reason vaginal intercourse cannot be a part of this, even if he needs something else to finish. Worth discussing his porn and masturbation habits as if he plays with himself with a tight grip, no vagina will ever compete.
Not sure how helpful that is?
I have so much to say that simply saying nothing is more than enough.
Original post by Apachecow
I realise this is a sensitive topic and some people can get upset with detail, so happy to move to PM in confidence if that helps.
Have you tried tensing while he is inside you - in effect you doing a kegel exercise? That can really help.
It's always tighter going in, that's normal. The sensitive part of the penis is the head. Try not going as deep?
Do you use lube? Is he smaller in the girth/length department? Circumcised?
Maybe google coital alignment technique - where the penis is rubbed against the front wall of the vagina and see if that provides more contact. Get the Karma Sutra out and see if any positions better than others.
The more turned on the woman becomes the longer, wider and wetter the vagina becomes. Against usual advice, maybe try less foreplay. Avoid anything up there before penetration as fingers/toys etc will stretch things out and make it looser.
Sex can be many things, no reason vaginal intercourse cannot be a part of this, even if he needs something else to finish. Worth discussing his porn and masturbation habits as if he plays with himself with a tight grip, no vagina will ever compete.
Not sure how helpful that is?
Have you tried tensing while he is inside you - in effect you doing a kegel exercise? That can really help.
It's always tighter going in, that's normal. The sensitive part of the penis is the head. Try not going as deep?
Do you use lube? Is he smaller in the girth/length department? Circumcised?
Maybe google coital alignment technique - where the penis is rubbed against the front wall of the vagina and see if that provides more contact. Get the Karma Sutra out and see if any positions better than others.
The more turned on the woman becomes the longer, wider and wetter the vagina becomes. Against usual advice, maybe try less foreplay. Avoid anything up there before penetration as fingers/toys etc will stretch things out and make it looser.
Sex can be many things, no reason vaginal intercourse cannot be a part of this, even if he needs something else to finish. Worth discussing his porn and masturbation habits as if he plays with himself with a tight grip, no vagina will ever compete.
Not sure how helpful that is?
Hey there! Thank you for the tips.. I have tried clenching the muscles while he’s in me which is why I’m trying to do the kegel strengthening, but sadly I’m also having to deal with the fact that his ex apparently had individual muscle control in her vagina during sex. I’m still partially convinced he’s mentally blocked a bit because of her, but that a WHOLE different conversation.
He is about 8-8.5, is wider at the back than the front and is circumcised. We do not use lube (I keep it wet enough for the both of us because I’m extremely attracted to him)
We have experimented with positions and locations and it helps a but, but I will definitely look up the alignment thing. He has done where he doesn’t go that deep, but we both like it deep more in general. I can feel him the whole time, but he can’t… which is why I’m starting on the muscles.
He doesn’t watch much porn and he doesn’t masterbate as much as he used too, but I can ask about tightness when he does. If anything it’s a conversation starter for our logically thinking brains
.I have something similar but I was never ..I never had a loosen vagina ....he's the only one I'm sleeping with and since the last time he *** 4 times after we came back to do sex after long months and after that he didn't *** 4 times again only just the last time I was with him in November 20 where he *** like 3 times but sometimes he's not turned on and it makes me think again about the other girl or girls and he secretly likes anal sex or my ass more than my pussy or my boobs . I see more sexual moving and he's closing eyes when in anal sex but when in my pussy he can feel witness and he goes harder but doesn't move sexually like how he does in anal sex ... I'm starting to feel loosen after putting this baking soda water ...and I'm wet and easily aroused or I don't know why but I'm uncomfortable feeling that I'm loosen but I don't know if iam or not but laying or sitting or walking feeling like my vagina is open when it wasn't like that
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