Handjobs/bjs don't get me off much

thats way too much information for TSR mate.... there's a forum called "Askmen" you may wanna look in to

Anyone else? I was with a girl the other night and I felt bad that I wasn't getting off to her doing it. The genuine reasons I think are that she was pretty bad at giving the handjobs, which is understandable for most girls. But I kept telling her that I get off when you get off so it's hard for me when it's you giving it all. This is the actual reason, and I don't think she believed me, and only thought I was saying it to make her feel better. We did it three times and I got there every time, the longest taking half an hour. But she couldn't get me off any other way.

Is there any way I can train myself to be able to get off, or should I try to help her improve if that really is the issue...

Is there any way I can train myself to be able to get off, or should I try to help her improve if that really is the issue...

Don't watch as much porn. Also communicate more. Don't just lie there.

How can you do much more than just lie there in a blow job? Unless you start skull ****ing, which is considered bad etiquette.

Truth is, giving oral has a bit of a knack to it, and most inexperienced people won't be good at it. It took me a while to be able to make my girlfriend finish from it. And handjobs just kind of suck, she's never going to have as good a feel for it as you do.

True with the bj point. Probably tell them to do a bit of both maybe?

With the hj point it's a problem with grip usually.