Guy makes spreadsheet with wife's ''no sex tonight'' excuses

Who knows she might be asexual or have an extremely low drive

It's sad that they're married and she's not comfortable enough to give him the real reason she isn't in the mood, rather she's forced to make up flimsy excuses.

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.I wouldn't have any sympathy for wife's who have been raped by their husband because they chose to have sex with this person in the first place if they don't want to have sex then they don't love them enough and should have divorced their husband(the husband shouldn't go to jail)-there are some exceptions where a wife might actually be ill or something but no excuse for regular turnings down of sex.

Wonder why he didn't just ask his wife what's actually the matter instead of making a spreadsheet?

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How do you know that he didn't? He more than likely did and she brushed him off. This was extreme, but she can't ignore data in black and white.

And how did you know he did and she brushed him off?

Yes it's extreme but I've seen guys do this for a joke.

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Maybe his constant pressure to have sex is putting her off sex?

I don't know how long they have been together for, but he's constantly begging for sex every day that is such a turn off and he wrote a spreadsheet too! Relationships have peaks and dips in the frequency of sex, you are all young late teens early 20's so your sex drive is high it will wane a little as you get older, also probably don't have the pressures, of kids, full time jobs & paying the mortgage. I have a toddler and since her birth sex has decreased as she takes up a lot of my time and I get tired, my partner has never wrote a spreadsheet demanding more sex, he asked me how he could help simple things like making me feel special, running me a bath etc, giving me a massage, if he asked her what could he do to help he would have a million times more luck getting sex!

He should start a new bank account and get his salary paid into that instead of the joint account while the problem persists.

We'll soon see who the "entitled" party is then.

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Why did they even get together in the first place? He sounds like a controlling bastard

Constant? He was only asking for sex once a day and sometimes several days apart. For some reason daily sex seems to be the equivalent of hard labour in the gulag for most married women.



Begging ? Trying to have sex with your wife is begging? Why is sex some commodity only women can offer to men, some sort or favour or bargaining tool? And like the other guy said :



Let's see how she or any other wife who acts this way (many of them bring little or no income home) comes ''begging'' when she runs out of her own money. But no, modern ''progressive'' thinking says men still have to share their hard earned with the wife while expecting her to cook or have sex is misogynistic . If she was sick or he was asking her for anal or whatever, I get it. Rejecting sex out of a whim is unacceptable. Maybe the guy doesn't feel like working 50hrs/week or whatever in a stressful job either and he'd rather stay at home and play WOW all day, but he does it because men have responsibilities and women have choices. How the **** is that fair?