It's a difficult one really, on the one hand you are being honest about an aspect of human life for both men and women where our instincts take over whether it be looks, wealth, attraction to someone who is good socially etc. On the other hand there is what actually makes a relationship work?
Getting with someone because their looks, wealthy or social ability attracted us without us even thinking about it well it could be seen as both superficial and natural. I think most of us hold done level of superficiality about us so I wouldn't ever berate anyone for it so long as it's not too openly admitted like telling others why looks, wealth, etc are so important. It could no doubt be unpleasant for anyone to find out that someone is with them for their looks or wealth or social ability, etc.
So what then? We are clearly attracted to others based on those attributes. I would say while stuff such as looks may always likely kick in for you try and find out about them as well. If you look them up on Facebook, what are they into? Is it saving the planet? Is it sports? Is it partying? Is it animals? Is it motorbikes or cars? Is it construction? Is it DIY? Is it something charitable? Is it something religious? Is it something Political? Etc, etc...
So how would you match with any off the above? If they are a 'Just Stop Oil' supporter and you couldn't give a damn about that stuff would you be really suited or able to get on the same wavelength? Or if they were a Manchester United football fan and you couldn't stand football or supported their evil arch rival club, what then?
So I won't berate you for what many of us do, I have done too, but what I would say is treat that as the first stage and move on quick to find out about them whether it's on social media or through talking to them, even listening. Anything that takes you beyond the visually stunning aspect and onto whether they could be anything more than pleasant eye candy.