What do we feel about relationships which start with one person being the 'rescuer'? I met a girl, we both like each other, and she's in a really **** place right now, getting heavily abused at home and stuff. I've been looking up how to help her and I think I can.
Anyway so imagine it all works out. She'll, somewhat rightfully, feel indebted to me for the rest of her like for helping her like that. Won't that kind relationship dynamic be awful? Where she will take any kind of **** I do just because I saved her years ago? Where she won't break up with me because she'll still need me as a pillar in her life? For what it's worth I secretly like the idea of rescuing someone, I'm just concerned about what happens going forward if me and her don't work out. Worth a thread of its own maybe?