I am a light-skinned pakistani, I want a white family!

my friend she just like you we go to a girls school tho :/ i dunno why she wishes she was white

I don't know what? Pakistani only just do stupid **** all the time.
All the time my mom and aunties come and backbite while I revise. Chat complete **** behind other people's backs.
They believe in the weirdest **** ever, I spoke to someone who is meant to be my friend from college(pakistani). They told me how did x and x and I was really happy for them and said great job. They said say Mash'allah or black magic. I was like **** off, if you were my friend you'd know I wanted good for you, don't need mas'allah to prove it you.
Also they are VERY VERY RACIST to black people. Believe me, one prick in college thinks just cause he is slightly lighter(nowhere near as light as me) he is superior to darker asians and black people. prick.

I haven't even spoke to a girl before cause it was haram...
I can't even speak to girl, find it very hard, it has really ruined my life.

Actually I am whiter than most pakistanis. My mother is pathan and did is pakistani, that's why I have light skin.

I get where you're coming from with the not liking the culture, I dislike a lot of it aswell. I'm sick of it.
You don't have to follow the culture, live your life the way you want it and raise your kids the way you want. If you want to celebrate eid do it, if it's turkey and presents you want, go for it.
As for the girls issue, there's many open minded people in the world, Asians too if you can believe me.

Let me begin with hating being a pakistani! I am an atheist and can't tell anyone except only my trusted friend. I live in pakistani area which is complete ****. I go to college with mostly pakistanis. But honestly wish I was born into an english family. I hate the culture. I hate the religion.

I am relatively white, you could tell that I was from asia but you wouldn't assume I was from pakistan.
I want to have a white girlfriend or (black, if I love her) but I feel all the white people in general hate us. White girls look much much more beautiful than pakistani girls on a whole(I have meet 10,000+ asians so I KNOW from quite a big sample).

Honestly, there are about 4 white girls in my college and they are all much better looking, but the way they live life in general is far more important to me and I love the fact that they act like a companion and someone you want to go through life with than the typical pakistani who just married when young, have sex, lots of children and stay at home. THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS AROUND ME, I KNOW pakistanis will comment on this thread negatively but if you are going to do that, remember this is my opinion. I want real help, not hate.

How is an ex-muslim even meant to find a girl friend when most think he is just a stupid pakistani?(I am pretty clever too).
I wouldn't mind going out with anyone in general but not religious people.
I meant white in the OP as like a white family( go out together, have fun, sing, xmas), doesn't have to be literally white.

Any advice on anything at all will help.

I agree, I dislike aspects of the culture too, but heres the thing, you dont have to follow it, break the stereotypes and culture and make people admire you for challenging it, you'll still be Pakistani at the end of the day, but not the typical one.

I don't give a flying **** how white or not so white you are. You are who you are. Your parents don't define you, they will to some extent but you can be what you want to be. Wanna be a wannabe-white-boy? Go right ahead..

I was a self hating Pakistani too, but now I just accept, best you can do is challenge the stereotypes, and you have bro, your an athiest after all.

Not a typical one?
What the heck is a typical one, may I ask?

Okay, thanks for your opinion but please kindly leave this thread. You are derailing. You aren't being helpful. Just a prick.

You talk like it's still the middle ages and atheism is a thing.

No wonder Pakistan isn't doing all too well.

Anyway to the OP I would advise simply adopting the good ideas in life and abandoning the bad ones, which seems like what you've already done.

I guess we'll have different opinions on what we define as typical ones, the ones in the media are presented as let's face it, scummy people, the ones I know are into following the gangster culture, and then the few I know who have a plan, doctors etc, the latter is obviously the best, but it seemed they are underrepresented in my opinion, so all people do look at us are benefits stealing cab drivers.

Atheism is a thing in the middle ages? And all I was just telling him to do was break social barriers of what people think of Pakistanis.

Actually I am whiter than most pakistanis. My mother is pathan and did is pakistani, that's why I have light skin.

I meant that atheism shouldn't be a big deal nowadays. Don't worry about it, I don't want to derail the thread.

I'm sorry OP, but I have to agree with some of the people here. Your attitude towards where you come from isn't very healthy. I'm a white (as in white skinned) Iraqi, atheist and gay (great combo, I win lol), I used to have that same attitude of yours (and I still do a bit) towards most arabic people. Where we come from (you and I) are horrible places, and white people just don't understand that. However, you, most definitely, should NOT be ashamed of coming from a place like that; you should be proud. Please PM me if you want any help or to talk or whatever.