Is my ex still attracted to me?

So she cheated on me after a crazily intense 6 months together, I suspect partly because she found a much better looking guy.

A year later, she found out that I know that she cheated, so she pleaded to meet up to apologise. We met up last night and it turned out that she had been feeling nostalgic, as a result of people mentioning me and her reading her diaries from the period. She had also started to feel very guilty as she found out that I had been really depressed following my discovery of her infidelity.

We met up, she apologised, we reminisced, then she began to praise me constantly and touch my leg. Inevitably, we ended up having sex. Now I'm wondering, was she doing this out of just guilt and nostalgia, or does she continue to find me attractive - throughout our reltionship she would tell me how attractive she thought I was, but this was a time ago now.

I know you guys will suggest it doesn't matter, and it doesn't really, but humour me on this one.

no.. she's lonely atm and you're the prey..she will devour you then when she finds someone hotter than you, farewell old buddy!

no.. she's lonely atm and you're the prey..she will devour you then when she finds someone hotter than you, farewell old buddy!

She isn't lonely though, she's been seeing someone.

This is most likely the case


You can still be lonely in a relationship. Ever heard the quote "i feel lonely even though im in a room full of people"? Well something like that.

She may be unhappy in her new relationship, or is comparing it to when she was with you. Or she is taking advantage of how you feel for her. She knows you will do anything for her (im assuming).

I say avoid. Ex's like that cant be trusted. Well, maybe they can, but you dont want to make the same mistake twice. Find someone else.

So you slept with her knowing she was seeing someone? Isn't that just as bad as what she did?

She sounds like sweet poison

So she doesn't think I'm good looking anymore then?