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My partner and I have been together for almost four years and he's probably only been down on me twice during that time.
I always give him BJs and satisfy him before we do the deed and when we do, it's either me on top or him from the back. I have asked if he can go down on me but he says no?! I also asked him if we can do it elsewhere like the sofa or somewhere discreet instead of the bedroom but no... We always stick to one place. Tried different sex positions but he gives up before we even begin to try. Im soooo bloody bored! I love sex so it reallt frustrates me. It feels like a chore. I've had previous partners and sex buddies who absolutely love giving me oral and I am not unhygienic I shower twice a day and have very good hygiene. Why is he hesitating? I am so fed up. Sex feels like a chore now and it is making me want to go elsewhere because he is so boring. I've told him it needs to improve and what is bothering him but he said nothing is bothering him he just lost his mojo a bit. :/

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Hahahaha dump his lame ass. If you've talked to him about it and you have let him know that youre not happy then he should start changing. If he isnt changing then youre obviously not happy in this relationship and this will probably lead to you cheating with someone else in which case i would say its best to end it (but only after you have tried all you can to voice your concerns).

It really puzzles me how some guys can be like this though. Why have sex in the same position all the frigging time and be all lazy. I would be throwing my partner around, chocking her, having that sensual hot passionate sex that drives her wild :tongue:

Reply 2

Butterfly92xo

OP

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Reply 3

Darien91

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Original post by Butterfly92xo

It puzzles me too. I love that! That is exactly what I like. Oh how I wish for my previous life back lol.

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Text me

Reply 4

Davalla

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Original post by Butterfly92xo

It puzzles me too. I love that! That is exactly what I like. Oh how I wish for my previous life back lol.

You like being choked?
Feminists should be more like you.
:biggrin:

Reply 5

trapking

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Original post by Butterfly92xo

It puzzles me too. I love that! That is exactly what I like. Oh how I wish for my previous life back lol.

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It's sad really, seems like he's a bit childish. How old is he?

And ikrr, I don't mess about I'm all for driving women wild :tongue:

p.s. them feels when shes scratching and grabbing you hard :colone:

Reply 6

ChaoticButterfly

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Original post by Davalla

You like being choked?
Feminists should be more like you.
:biggrin:

It may shock you but feminists like sex too :rolleyes:

Reply 7

trapking

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Original post by Davalla

You like being choked?
Feminists should be more like you.
:biggrin:

Mate women love that ****! Ofc though youve gotta be careful not to actually stop her airflow hahahaha but a little pressure while you look her in the eyes too is key :colone:

Reply 8

chazwomaq

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Original post by ChaoticButterfly

It may shock you but feminists like sex too :rolleyes:

#notallfeminists

https://witchwind.wordpress.com/2013/12/15/piv-is-always-rape-ok/

PIV mean penis in vagina just to be clear.

Not particle image velocimetry.

Reply 9

Kalail

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are u male or female though? Advice varies depending on gender

Reply 10

ChaoticButterfly

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Original post by chazwomaq

#notallfeminists

https://witchwind.wordpress.com/2013/12/15/piv-is-always-rape-ok/

PIV mean penis in vagina just to be clear.

Not particle image velocimetry.

#notallfeminists

Reply 11

claireestelle

22

Maybe you just aren't compatible sexually, if talking to him about it hasn't helped then consider whether you still want to be with him or not.

Reply 12

mkap

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Original post by Darien91

Text me

lmao the thirst

Reply 13

donte

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better to be boring than non-existent...

Honestly dump his ass. Sex is about the both of you, not just one person. He's being totally selfish

Reply 14

Darien91

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Original post by mkap

lmao the thirst

Haha I thought I'd get more quotes than this! I'm just playing

Reply 15

mkap

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Original post by Darien91

Haha I thought I'd get more quotes than this! I'm just playing

its all about timing haha :u:

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Andy98

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Original post by Darien91

Haha I thought I'd get more quotes than this! I'm just playing

Take notes

Original post by Butterfly92xo

It puzzles me too. I love that! That is exactly what I like. Oh how I wish for my previous life back lol.

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Well, that can be arranged :colone:

Reply 17

chikane

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Original post by Butterfly92xo

My partner and I have been together for almost four years and he's probably only been down on me twice during that time.
I always give him BJs and satisfy him before we do the deed and when we do, it's either me on top or him from the back. I have asked if he can go down on me but he says no?! I also asked him if we can do it elsewhere like the sofa or somewhere discreet instead of the bedroom but no... We always stick to one place. Tried different sex positions but he gives up before we even begin to try. Im soooo bloody bored! I love sex so it reallt frustrates me. It feels like a chore. I've had previous partners and sex buddies who absolutely love giving me oral and I am not unhygienic I shower twice a day and have very good hygiene. Why is he hesitating? I am so fed up. Sex feels like a chore now and it is making me want to go elsewhere because he is so boring. I've told him it needs to improve and what is bothering him but he said nothing is bothering him he just lost his mojo a bit. :/

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Why should you give him oral if he won't? If sex is important to you then you might want to break things off with him if he won't improve or listen to you.
If i was a guy and was dating you i would care more for your pleasure and try to satisfy you which he clearly isn't doing so maybe you should end things as 4 years will turn into 10 and you will be still be miserable or even having an affair which you don't want to do.