Help me to stop masturbating
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Original post by PaulACP
Adult one of these?
ROFL! Who even came up with this idea?!
surround yourself with other people alot/distract yourself, try not to be alone until necessary
I'd doubt you're gonna jerk it with other people watching
I'd doubt you're gonna jerk it with other people watching
Original post by muslimstanisyed
also during sex it takes me too long to cum.
On some occasions i have not even been able to cum.
On some occasions i have not even been able to cum.
That's highly likely to be not down to you masturbating as such, but how you've been doing it.
The sensations of partner sex are distinctly different to those of a hard and fast solo hand, and it can take time to get used to them and be able to come as a result. If that's you, the solution is to masturbate slowly and more gently, using lube for example. Similarly if you've been using porn, try using fantasy instead. There usually aren't a bunch of porn actors going at it to watch when you're having sex with someone else...
Original post by unprinted
That's highly likely to be not down to you masturbating as such, but how you've been doing it.
The sensations of partner sex are distinctly different to those of a hard and fast solo hand, and it can take time to get used to them and be able to come as a result. If that's you, the solution is to masturbate slowly and more gently, using lube for example. Similarly if you've been using porn, try using fantasy instead. There usually aren't a bunch of porn actors going at it to watch when you're having sex with someone else...
The sensations of partner sex are distinctly different to those of a hard and fast solo hand, and it can take time to get used to them and be able to come as a result. If that's you, the solution is to masturbate slowly and more gently, using lube for example. Similarly if you've been using porn, try using fantasy instead. There usually aren't a bunch of porn actors going at it to watch when you're having sex with someone else...
if this is the case, would letting a guy f*ck you hard and fast make him cum fast?
and romantic sex will take more time for him to cum?
Original post by muslimstanisyed
I think its getting to the stage of an addiction so i think its about time to knock it on the head (excuse the pun ahem) and also during sex it takes me too long to cum.
On some occasions i have not even been able to cum.
On some occasions i have not even been able to cum.
Astaghfirullah!
Just kidding :P. If you're doing it out of habit then it could be that you are bored and need to keep yourself better occupied with other things. Because it's true, sex is so much better if you haven't been w4nking in excess. Try and focus on hobbies that will stop you from feeling the need to keep doing it.
Original post by Anonymous
if this is the case, would letting a guy f*ck you hard and fast make him cum fast?
and romantic sex will take more time for him to cum?
and romantic sex will take more time for him to cum?
It's going to increase the stimulation, yes, and may well help you learn how to come via intercourse.
Romantic sex can be hard: it depends on what both people want.
go to a bar and try getting a one night stand or something? And, no, i'm not joking, i'm actually trying to be serious. Plus, you managed to stop before, what did you do to stop? just try that again.
Original post by unprinted
It's going to increase the stimulation, yes, and may well help you learn how to come via intercourse.
Romantic sex can be hard: it depends on what both people want.
Romantic sex can be hard: it depends on what both people want.
haha why is it difficult? what would both people want? I don't like it slow after a while it's boring anyway.
Original post by KayleeReidXOXO
go to a bar and try getting a one night stand or something? And, no, i'm not joking, i'm actually trying to be serious. Plus, you managed to stop before, what did you do to stop? just try that again.
**** i forgot about this thread.
And you know what i have no idea how i stopped i just did it.
Why do you suggest getting a one night stand ?
Original post by WBZ144
Astaghfirullah!
Just kidding :P. If you're doing it out of habit then it could be that you are bored and need to keep yourself better occupied with other things. Because it's true, sex is so much better if you haven't been w4nking in excess. Try and focus on hobbies that will stop you from feeling the need to keep doing it.
Just kidding :P. If you're doing it out of habit then it could be that you are bored and need to keep yourself better occupied with other things. Because it's true, sex is so much better if you haven't been w4nking in excess. Try and focus on hobbies that will stop you from feeling the need to keep doing it.
Sorry for the long reply.
Boredom could be a bit of an issue.
The weird thing is though ive got plenty of hobbies i dont think ill be able to fit more in lol.
Original post by Anonymous
haha why is it difficult?
Hard as in 'shag brains out;' vigorous, not 'difficult'...
Original post by muslimstanisyed
**** i forgot about this thread.
And you know what i have no idea how i stopped i just did it.
Why do you suggest getting a one night stand ?
And you know what i have no idea how i stopped i just did it.
Why do you suggest getting a one night stand ?
I had the idea that maybe it would help you burn off any unconscious sexual frustration that maybe causing you to masturbate so much
Gym. You'll get hooked
Original post by KayleeReidXOXO
I had the idea that maybe it would help you burn off any unconscious sexual frustration that maybe causing you to masturbate so much
I do that already though thats the thing.
I think im just addicted to porn.
Original post by muslimstanisyed
I do that already though thats the thing.
I think im just addicted to porn.
I think im just addicted to porn.
As previous person said try fantasy. If you get into that it can be really erotic and lead to a really satisfying and intense orgasm. That way you won't need to watch porn. Masturbation is healthy so you don't need to cut it out but maybe just cut it down if that pleases you. Do whatever you need to do but don't beat yourself up about it.
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