I'm not telling you to avoid professions I just used her job as a way of saying she doesn't seem really intelligent, its not the only thing that makes me think that.

Reply 28

Reality Check

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Original post by Anonymous

I get that but even the way she writes messages and the things she says make her seem quite immature

I understand that you can only make a judgement at the moment on what you read, and it's not unreasonable of you to do that. What would be unreasonable, however, would be if you were to just leave it there, without going on to meet her and make a full judgement of her once you were in possession of all the facts. Yes, you might be right - you might meet her and she turns out to be an idiot, and your preconceptions based on her writing style prove entirely well-founded. Equally, she might have a Ph.D and clumsy fingers...

If you dismiss any potential partners so quickly based on one piece of evidence (how she writes) then you're really narrowing down the field of potential matches, and it's not going to do you any favours in the long run.

Reply 29

Anonymous #1

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Original post by Reality Check

I understand that you can only make a judgement at the moment on what you read, and it's not unreasonable of you to do that. What would be unreasonable, however, would be if you were to just leave it there, without going on to meet her and make a full judgement of her once you were in possession of all the facts. Yes, you might be right - you might meet her and she turns out to be an idiot, and your preconceptions based on her writing style prove entirely well-founded. Equally, she might have a Ph.D and clumsy fingers...

If you dismiss any potential partners so quickly based on one piece of evidence (how she writes) then you're really narrowing down the field of potential matches, and it's not going to do you any favours in the long run.

Yeah fair enough, I think I probably will go to meet her. I don't have anything to lose and if it doesn't work out I've only wasted one night and have still gotten to see a film that I wanted to watch anyway.

Reply 30

Therec00

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This is a forum for wealthy, intelligent snobs.

They hate manual labour and minimum wage people.

Money and status is more important than anything

Reply 31

999tigger

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Original post by Anonymous

She seems like a nice person, yeah it was looks initially since she didn't have a bio but when talking she just seems like a nice person.

Just meet her like everyone says. If you dont think you get on then you dont have to carry on.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 32

Reality Check

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Original post by Anonymous

Yeah fair enough, I think I probably will go to meet her. I don't have anything to lose and if it doesn't work out I've only wasted one night and have still gotten to see a film that I wanted to watch anyway.