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Idk if she has a bf ???

So there's this girl in my college who is honestly so beautiful that i've never felt this way about any other girl in my life , idk if she has a bf though (her friends say she does but i'm not too sure) i could go ask her but what if she says she does have a bf idk how to react because i really like her :frown:

what should do if she does have a bf ?

Reply 1

8472

Stalk her on facebook or whatever you kids use these days.

Reply 2

Carla.Power

yea stalk her social media, im great at that sort of stuff I can find out for you if you want lol

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by 8472

Stalk her on facebook or whatever you kids use these days.

She dosen't reply to my messages , i know this is indicating that she might be taken but i still don't know :/

Reply 4

hannah00

If she had a boyfriend, she would bring it up with in 5 sentences of you hitting on her.

even if she does, stick with her, they make break up or something

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by hannah00

If she had a boyfriend, she would bring it up with in 5 sentences of you hitting on her.

even if she does, stick with her, they make break up or something

hmm ok , the thing is i don't wanna be too close with her if she already has a bf cause that's quite rude

Reply 6

hannah00

Original post by Anonymous

hmm ok , the thing is i don't wanna be too close with her if she already has a bf cause that's quite rude

not really

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by hannah00

not really

won't it look like i'm trying to break them up though

Reply 8

UWS

Original post by Anonymous

what should do if she does have a bf ?

Then you say "cool, no problem" then you move on with your life. At least you know the answer, you have nothing to lose by asking.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by UWS

Then you say "cool, no problem" then you move on with your life. At least you know the answer, you have nothing to lose by asking.

i did that once before with another girl and she told all her friends who then laughed at me :/

Reply 10

hannah00

Original post by Anonymous

won't it look like i'm trying to break them up though

dont try and break them up, just be a cool and fun guy to be around.

Eventually they will break up and you can swoop in.

but its risky strategy, dont get your hopes up or become too emotionally invested

Reply 11

UWS

Original post by Anonymous

i did that once before with another girl and she told all her friends who then laughed at me :/

It sounds like you dodged a bullet with her then.

What's wrong with asking someone out anyway? They are so immature.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by hannah00

yeh i don't do much just smile at her every time we make eye contact

and the odd compliment towards her which i think she appreciates but i'm not sure

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by UWS

It sounds like you dodged a bullet with her then.

What's wrong with asking someone out anyway? They are so immature.

didn't even ask her out and just said if she was single and she took it the wrong way XD

Reply 14

UWS

Original post by Anonymous

didn't even ask her out and just said if she was single and she took it the wrong way XD

Oh well, it's just a question.

I would still go for it.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Original post by UWS

Oh well, it's just a question.

I would still go for it.

i'll do it tomorrow if i get the chance

Reply 16

hannah00

Original post by Anonymous

yeh i don't do much just smile at her every time we make eye contact

and the odd compliment towards her which i think she appreciates but i'm not sure

ok, in which case its best to move on. you will only be putting your self through pain.

Believe me pretty girls are not in rare supply, youll meet another one in perhaps better circumstances.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by hannah00

ok, in which case its best to move on. you will only be putting your self through pain.

Believe me pretty girls are not in rare supply, youll meet another one in perhaps better circumstances.