Bland personality :(

Read more. That way you'll have content to contribute to a conversation.

Read more. That way you'll have content to contribute to a conversation.

Read more. That way you'll have content to contribute to a conversation.

lol can tell you have no friends, instead of going out you read books in the dark. OP go to the pub or where everyone hangs out and get wasted

You may just be quiet or more reserved. Don’t think of yourself as having a bland personality and don’t live in fear. You could develop different aspects of yourself by trying new activities and mixing with different types of people.

Maybe you’re hanging out with the wrong groups. You won’t click with everyone.

I feel exactly the same. I'm in Year 11.

Even though I'm in a group I could count how many real friends I have on one hand lol.

As in novels or news?

Not a fan of watching movies as most are just rubbish. As for tv series, I've stopped watching when I started sixth form as I got busy and went on a hiatus. Now, I'm just annoyed of having so many half finished shows and have stopped watching series. With books I'm just a really slow reader and will probably take a solid month to finish a book

I've noticed this, a lot of women around your age lack individuality especially when in university.

Over time you should begin to start getting a base of interests and things to do. My ex's have been like this before, all they did was watch Youtube and chat rubbish but over time it goes away.

As ------- said: both. Even just reading the days headlines on your phone while on the bus/train/etc or while eating breakfast is a great way to get caught up on what topics are trending and provide content that you can talk about with your peers. When I open Chrome on my phone in the morning it brings up a list of the latest articles in both news and entertainment media and often enough a friend will say "Hey, did you see..." and bring up something I likely read about recently.



What do you do in your free time then?

I mean to be honest, most people are not all that exciting or have much depth in their characters. They tend to look at people around them and emulate traits they think will make them popular. E.g. one of my friends has no hobbies other than drinking wine, but she will act like she has interests in things she knows nothing about (says she loves rock music when she can only name one song from Guns n’ Roses and that’s it, buys books to make her study look super intellectual but has only actually read a few of them lol). And these days, you can notice most people are using same makeup style, same clothing style, same way of talking, same interests, etc.

The only thing I can think of is maybe the way you talk is not so expressive. People tend to get bored when you speak in a monotone with no expression on your face. I am a quiet person so I used to be like that, then I worked in sales for a while a learned how to speak enthusiastically and expressively.