So I moved into a shared house. Initially (the first week) I thought great the bathroom is free at 8.15am for morning stuff. The kitchen is free on a night at 8.30pm for making dinner. It will be like having my own place.
Strange thing, another guy in the house suddenly started switching his routine to using the bathroom and kitchen at those times.
So I adjusted my routine to get up earlier for the bathroom, then the guy changes to go earlier, so I try later, the guy goes in later. So I say fk it I’ll just use the bathroom at work. This is the strange thing, when I stopped using the bathroom on a morning he suddenly was never in there. Like, I now just walk past the empty bathroom on my way out to work. So fine I’ll just be brushing my teeth at work from now on, can’t do with the hassle.
Now, the kitchen, so since he changed his routine to be in the kitchen when I am, I decide to go in the kitchen after him and just wait for him to finish. Then, he starts using the kitchen later and later (and for longer). Almost like he’s waiting for me or something. So I’m eating dinner at like 11pm. So I say, fk it I’ll go in before him. You guessed it he now goes into the kitchen earlier. I can’t escspe this fking guy and I need space.
It’s happened too many times to be random. It seems he wants to be in the kitchen when I’m there, the bathroom too probably if he could.
Is it me??? Am I being paranoid? Maybe he has no set routine?? But every time I change my routine he is just, welll, there!
Any ideas what to do here?