I am afraid of masturbation !

I've been trying, watching porn, trying to relax. I am just a little awkward when it comes to it. I know it's pleasant, healthy, whatever and I wanna do it like almost everyone else but dammit I cannot. How did you overwhelm you fear over it ( if you had it)? Because I cannot do it myself? Should I just wait for my first time with someone?

Reply 1

username5737602

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Don't force yourself to do something you aren't comfortable

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by tej3141

Don't force yourself to do something you aren't comfortable

Yeah, I guess. I just feel like I should but I sadly cannot. I don't understand how other people got to do it

If you were really horny enough and ready, you will be able to.

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by CaptainDuckie

If you were really horny enough and ready, you will be able to.

Trust me, dude. I remember this one time, when while watching Porn I found vid that was THE BEST. Literally! And something still kept me back. I just couldn't even though I wanted to. Badly

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harrysbar

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Original post by Anonymous

Should I just wait for my first time with someone?

Probably best not to do that unless it really is impossible for you. But really, what's the worst that can happen? There is no reason for you to build it up to be a big thing in your head.

Original post by Anonymous

Trust me, dude. I remember this one time, when while watching Porn I found vid that was THE BEST. Literally! And something still kept me back. I just couldn't even though I wanted to. Badly

what are you scared of?

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by CaptainDuckie

what are you scared of?

That's the best thing. I don't know!! I mean, first time when I wanted to do it, I though I'm ready. I was watching some hot vid, and than... boom! I just couldn't even start, I felt sudden urge to stop.

Original post by Anonymous

That's the best thing. I don't know!! I mean, first time when I wanted to do it, I though I'm ready. I was watching some hot vid, and than... boom! I just couldn't even start, I felt sudden urge to stop.

are you religious?

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Original post by CaptainDuckie

are you religious?

Nah, not really. No

Original post by Anonymous

Nah, not really. No

You might be scared of someone walking in on you, perhaps?

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by CaptainDuckie

You might be scared of someone walking in on you, perhaps?

No. I live alone right now, over a year actually. First time I was doing it, I wasn't alone but it was late and my parents were sleeping. That was 10 years ago I think. So that's not it. Have u ever done that? What was it like the first time? Did u feel any pressure?