if you weren't getting any would you lose interest?

Thats not good bbe x haha!!

I do take care of them though bby, after I'm through with a girl she's always satisfied and she'll want for nothing x

You are a fascinating person. Having the psychology and nuance of a baby bonobo must make things pretty easy and straightforward to you. After all, it's people like you who make the dynamic, charismatic personalities that make even casual interactions exciting so much more rewarding to find. You chill me a little, but hey, if having sex with a girl behind her boyfriend's back is so fulfilling for you, you have your life sorted out for you. No need to try for the great pleasures of life.

OH MY! haha!! well you sound like a right naughty boy x

I have no trouble with giving a girl what she wants, I'm naughty when I need to be which is very often x

I'm a girl and with my first boyfriend when I was 15 it took us about 4 months to have sex, my second boyfriend when I was 16 about 3 months and I had sex with my previous boyfriend when I was 18 after 2 weeks of knowing each other. I also had a slutty one night stand phase in between each of these boyfriends, so I enjoy sex and I don't think it's particularly 'special.'

I'm 22 now and my ex and I broke up 2 months ago. I have no desire to have casual sex again because I had a great sex life with my ex and it is so much better having sex with someone you know and who knows how to please you than a random person. I can pleasure myself better, faster and whenever I want, and I would rather do that than have sex with a random person.

From now on, I only want to have sex with someone that I like when we're both not seeing anyone else. Whether that means in a relationship or just not talking and flirting with other people.

If I meet someone and we both think we're amazing and completely into each other and not seeing anyone else, I'll have sex with them sooner. If I meet someone who I don't really click with, maybe go on a few dates but they're still seeing other people, I won't have sex with them.

Fair enough. So how do you get around this? If you want to have sex and your not sure of how she feels about it, and you don't want to push the subject to seem like that is where your interest lies only. I mean if you've brought up the subject and broken the barrier, do you just come right out and say you want sex?