honestly: are looks the most important thing?

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Reply 40

fortysixandtwo

Looks are usually the initial attraction. But there's certainly got to be more than that to keep the attraction going.

Reply 41

HumorousGent.

they're up there with appearance and aesthetic appeal.

Reply 42

harlar

If the personality isn't there, it's not going to work - after all, wouldn't you much rather be called interesting than pretty?

Reply 43

anon4042

the best way I describe what i go for is:

Personailty is very important, and is what is mainly needed to sustain a relationship with someone, but looks are what is needed to open up a door for me to want to explore that personality :smile:

If there's no looks on a girl, I don't want to know her =(

Reply 44

Indieboohoo

Rogerio134

Look are important, id say that is fairly obvious to most human beings who are being honest. I don't think that you can deny looks are a big factor in a relationship or just attracting a person in general.

HOWEVER i think personality is a really big factor in attraction too, it really all depends on what kind of thing your looking for to be honest. If you are looking for a quick meaningless fling then i think looks are a lot more important (Or desperation for some people) but if your looking for something deeper i think personality over rides looks.

I mean look at some examples like Adrian chiles getting with that stunner from the one show! hes not attractive in the slightest and because hes funny and spends alot of time with her he got in there whereas if he was just boring bloke he would have had no chance!

Looks matter and i think everyone should maximize what they have to increase their chances with perspective partners but a large part of it is in the head whether it be your own self confidence or your personality.

I swear she's going out with Frank Lampard :confused:

Reply 45

thenuts

jumpingjesusholycow

Just chill the **** out and stop soul searching everyone to get laid. You'll get a boyfriend when the right guy comes along. Untill then, relax and stop questioning whether 'people are interested only in looks'.