Original post by PorojukahaThe answer to this is simple. There are very few real men left in the world.
You are not doing anything wrong. Sure you could smile, you could do some of the work. Sure maybe you aren't dressing prettily enough or you just aren't that hot. Idk upload some pics and we'll tell you. But regardless of all of this no matter how you dress or what you look like some men will be attracted to you. The problem is that the men who are attracted to you simply are not approaching you because they are pansies.
Years ago men used to have to kill buffalo with a stick, they used to have to go to war to defend their families, they used to have to be ready at a moments notice to whoop some ass. Nowadays most men need to know how to use microsoft excel.
But its more than that. I dont think that modern men being weak is really from technology per se. Its because of 2 things, Media and Feminism. The media is constantly telling us we are not good enough, people who do look as beautiful as they should get an early start in school being *******s to those who dont. I think that most people are very wounded inside about their own value. Forget approaching you, how could a man like this truly make you feel like a woman? How could he wear the pants in a relationship?
The other culprit, like I said, is feminism. You guys bitched and moaned that you wanted to be treated like men because you felt you werent treated "equal" never mind the fact that we spent more on your jewelry than we did on our cars and most of us lived our entire lives to please you and wait on you hand and foot. Never mind the fact that we gave you a free place to live and when we pissed you off WE the people paying the bills, not you, slept on the couch.
You forgot all of that and started bitching. So nowadays you get to bring home your own bacon and you can buy your own damn jewelry. So apparently if you want to get laid you are also going to have to take more of a masculine role.
Now I realize that you probably arent a feminist, you are just an innocent victim. I mean, us men, we aren't really victims of this, actually, things couldn't have turned out better for us. "You want to go get a job and pay for all your own ****?!?!? Damn honey! Be my guest!! While your at it, can I stay at home and do the cooking? Hell YES!!! Whoa whoa wait, your still going to bang the **** out of me when you come home and I don't even have to DO anything? Sign me up!!"
I guess the lesson to women at large, especially feminists is: Be careful what you wish for.
The lesson for you? well, all the recommendations here sounded pretty good.
Or you could move to a country that is a little less emasculated, like America. Here usually in clubs women have the opposite problem. People wont STOP approaching them. They want to go out and have a discussion with their friends, but every 10 seconds another dude rolls up.
By the way, fellas, this is why women can be so mean in public. How would you start treating girls if every 10 seconds another one came up with a lame ass pickup line? yeah, Id be an ******* to them too, its called flyswatting. Plus, that way only the good ones who actually have the stones to take a little social pressure make it through to reproduction. The last thing we want is more weak men in the world.