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Clubbing-Also "Eyed up but hardly approached"

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Original post by tweetyxo
Lol do you think i posted this thread? XD


Hurr durr........ Yeah!
Original post by Porojukaha
The answer to this is simple. There are very few real men left in the world.

You are not doing anything wrong. Sure you could smile, you could do some of the work. Sure maybe you aren't dressing prettily enough or you just aren't that hot. Idk upload some pics and we'll tell you. But regardless of all of this no matter how you dress or what you look like some men will be attracted to you. The problem is that the men who are attracted to you simply are not approaching you because they are pansies.

Years ago men used to have to kill buffalo with a stick, they used to have to go to war to defend their families, they used to have to be ready at a moments notice to whoop some ass. Nowadays most men need to know how to use microsoft excel.

But its more than that. I dont think that modern men being weak is really from technology per se. Its because of 2 things, Media and Feminism. The media is constantly telling us we are not good enough, people who do look as beautiful as they should get an early start in school being *******s to those who dont. I think that most people are very wounded inside about their own value. Forget approaching you, how could a man like this truly make you feel like a woman? How could he wear the pants in a relationship?

The other culprit, like I said, is feminism. You guys bitched and moaned that you wanted to be treated like men because you felt you werent treated "equal" never mind the fact that we spent more on your jewelry than we did on our cars and most of us lived our entire lives to please you and wait on you hand and foot. Never mind the fact that we gave you a free place to live and when we pissed you off WE the people paying the bills, not you, slept on the couch.

You forgot all of that and started bitching. So nowadays you get to bring home your own bacon and you can buy your own damn jewelry. So apparently if you want to get laid you are also going to have to take more of a masculine role.

Now I realize that you probably arent a feminist, you are just an innocent victim. I mean, us men, we aren't really victims of this, actually, things couldn't have turned out better for us. "You want to go get a job and pay for all your own ****?!?!? Damn honey! Be my guest!! While your at it, can I stay at home and do the cooking? Hell YES!!! Whoa whoa wait, your still going to bang the **** out of me when you come home and I don't even have to DO anything? Sign me up!!"

I guess the lesson to women at large, especially feminists is: Be careful what you wish for.

The lesson for you? well, all the recommendations here sounded pretty good.

Or you could move to a country that is a little less emasculated, like America. Here usually in clubs women have the opposite problem. People wont STOP approaching them. They want to go out and have a discussion with their friends, but every 10 seconds another dude rolls up.

By the way, fellas, this is why women can be so mean in public. How would you start treating girls if every 10 seconds another one came up with a lame ass pickup line? yeah, Id be an ******* to them too, its called flyswatting. Plus, that way only the good ones who actually have the stones to take a little social pressure make it through to reproduction. The last thing we want is more weak men in the world.


Said by a guy who has never been put down or felt the prang of "she isn't into me" after 1 minute.

Yup 1 minute and only boys think women operate on a logical level. Buffalo's? Are we being serious here?

This is CLUBBING, an entirely different animal...pun intended. Sure you get looks but if you were willing to put yourself into a group of unknowns and leave yourself open to attack by these simple words "hi my name is ******, whats yours?" then maybe you are worthy of being humiliated.

All it takes to have a chain of her girlfriends to rip you a new one and yes it will sting but heres another catch, if you are one of those DGAF and keep fishing till something bites, you're desperate.

Hell, it might work but a lot of guys dont get the ability to lock her friends out of the approaching process and will fail.
Reply 22
Original post by Silver Arrow
Hurr durr........ Yeah!



Yes because people always reply to their own threads... :confused:

When i said shame i can't take my own advice, I meant, i can tell other people to SMILE and get people to come over, but i can't do it myself 'cuz im too shy..

-.-
Original post by tweetyxo
Yes because people always reply to their own threads... :confused:

When i said shame i can't take my own advice, I meant, i can tell other people to SMILE and get people to come over, but i can't do it myself 'cuz im too shy..

-.-


Yes i think you'll find that they do.
Original post by HARRY PUTAH
Said by a guy who has never been put down or felt the prang of "she isn't into me" after 1 minute.

Yup 1 minute and only boys think women operate on a logical level. Buffalo's? Are we being serious here?

This is CLUBBING, an entirely different animal...pun intended. Sure you get looks but if you were willing to put yourself into a group of unknowns and leave yourself open to attack by these simple words "hi my name is ******, whats yours?" then maybe you are worthy of being humiliated.

All it takes to have a chain of her girlfriends to rip you a new one and yes it will sting but heres another catch, if you are one of those DGAF and keep fishing till something bites, you're desperate.

Hell, it might work but a lot of guys dont get the ability to lock her friends out of the approaching process and will fail.


what are you trying to say?
Reply 25
Original post by Anonymous
When i go out clubbing i seem to get a bit of attention but boys do not really try to dance with me I will get looked at a lot but never approached.Is this normal? Boys can you give me a reason why this might happen.


Anonymous poster please reveal yourself because some strange person called Silver Arrow on this thread thinks its me -.-


SILVER ARROW WAIT UP!! :P
Original post by sil3nt_cha0s
what are you trying to say?


That its a load of *******s what he typed.
Reply 27
Original post by tweetyxo
Anonymous poster please reveal yourself because some strange person called Silver Arrow on this thread thinks its me -.-


SILVER ARROW WAIT UP!! :P


I am the thread starter!
Reply 28
It happens dude, I don't really oogle women myself even if really drunk, and when I approach them to chat it's sort of at random really. Not a matter of concern.
Reply 29
Original post by sassy123
I am the thread starter!


Love you for that :biggrin:

Original post by Silver Arrow
x


Read sassy123's post. Mwahahhahaha, in your face.
Original post by sassy123
I am the thread starter!


No, I'm Spartacus!

Wait, what?
Reply 31
This is the story of my life, but I'm a guy :rolleyes:
when im out and drunk i look at kebab shops, yet never go in.
Original post by tweetyxo
Love you for that :biggrin:



Read sassy123's post. Mwahahhahaha, in your face.


Oh dear haha. Well done for embarassing the OP. I'm sure she's happy with you :tongue:
Reply 34
How is it embarrassing? Lots of people are shy? I admitted it.
Original post by tweetyxo
How is it embarrassing? Lots of people are shy? I admitted it.


It's embarrassing for the OP as you just made them reveal themselves. Try and read before you reply.
Reply 36
Yes because I held a gun to the anonymous poster's head and said reveal yourself.
Reply 37
Original post by HARRY PUTAH
That its a load of *******s what he typed.


yeah I was kind of confused myself. I was kind of offended by his assuming that I had never been rejected by a girl. Actually I have been both rejected and hooked up with quite a few girls. Definitly more rejections than hook ups, but i mean, thats the nature of the beast yo. Gotta put yourself out there. Even if you are one of the very few real men left in the world it doesnt mean that you are going to instantly get along with a girl.
Reply 38
Original post by tweetyxo
They're probably intimidated, so next time smile at them and they'll be like ooh *comes over* :biggrin:


This. :smile:
Original post by Porojukaha
one of the very few real men left in the world it doesnt mean that you are going to instantly get along with a girl.


A womans idea of a man is as varied as a science fiction writers porn stash, its beyond measure.

I wont dress in a particular style to attract a single type of woman, nor should any guy but they do a lot of the time.

Also, time is on a guys side, women are not so choosey when they're older, believe me. if they are they are not worth the time or money.

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