"Size" advice ?

What if it just won't ever work ? That's the entire reason I made this thread really. I want to think you're right and after a while taking it steady, she'd adapt and we'll be able to have normal sex. But what if physically it just won't work? I'd waste another 2/4/6 months having bad sex. 6 months of bad sex would kill my self esteem. Eugh I just don't know what to do :/

Well fair enough if you're only after sex from this girl. It would be a bit pointless. Surely if you liked her though it wouldn't be a 'waste' - seems like you're very focused on the sexual aspect.

I didn't mean it like that! I really do like the girl, and I've never been one to sleep around and have one night stands. But I know how important sex is in a relationship, and things will just fizzle out if we can NEVER have sex.

What if it just won't ever work ? That's the entire reason I made this thread really. I want to think you're right and after a while taking it steady, she'd adapt and we'll be able to have normal sex. But what if physically it just won't work? I'd waste another 2/4/6 months having bad sex. 6 months of bad sex would kill my self esteem. Eugh I just don't know what to do :/

I seriously doubt that you can't take it slow and make it work. Sex is extremely enjoyable for me and my boyfriend as long as we don't have a dry patch ie 3 or more weeks.. The vagina is really flexible, think after all it pops out babies which are a hell of a lot larger- dialates to like 10cm, going by films. I think she can handle you, it will just take some time. I did worry that sex was going to always be painful but it did get easier.. I can't remember how many months it took or weeks but it was definitely less than 4. I am sure it will not take very long before she begins to enjoy it more, the pain gradually gets less and pleasure gets more until it is completely outweighed in the end, but patience will be needed!

This may sound a little weird especially for a relatively short relationship but maybe you could suggest she get a largeish dildo so that she can practice a bit in her own time and get used to it? Perhaps start with something a little smaller than your own and work her way up?

Either way if you like her then I'd definitely suggest you work at it instead of giving in. Good luck.

It varies but around 10 inches long, 6 inches around. This is interesting, one of her friends told me the other day she hadn't had sex with anyone in over a year so maybe that could be it(?) I know that I'm the problem though, not her, whichever way you look at it which is the annoying part :/ So you think I should just carry on trying and hoping things will get easier ?

That'd put you in the top 0.01% of the population.. I call BS.

I don't care much for made up percentages. Don't mind proving it to the haters either way..

It isn't a made up percentage, it's based on statistical research. And I'm not a 'hater', I simply do not believe you. It's the equivalent off somebody starting a thread claiming to have an IQ of 170+, would you believe them?

Doesn't say anything on that site about 10 inches. Only goes to 9, so are you just guessing? 9 = 0.1% so 10 must = 0.01%

I didn't start a thread claiming to have a 10 inch penis, somebody asked me specifically, later on, to better answer my questions. I didn't want to say my size, because of people like you who think because its rare I'm a liar. :/ Regardless.. I'm not shy by any means, I'll happily prove it to cynical folk like yourself.

No, I'm not guessing; the 'size survey' statistics with the data that goes as high as 10 inches unfortunately also features graphic images which I obviously cannot link to TSR. It isn't difficult to find though if you want to check it for yourself.

It was pretty obvious that it wouldn't be too long before somebody asked the size question in a thread like this, and I'm pretty sure that you knew that when you started it. I'm not sure how you propose to 'prove it', as linking nude images is prohibited on this site, and even if could link a photo how could anybody know it was you and not an image you've hijacked from a porn site?

You came up with those numbers, it's up to you to back up the numbers with references. It's not on me to go researching size percentages..

Its pretty simple really, I can write mine or your TSR name on some paper in the pic as a vouch. Obviously I wouldn't send it over TSR, but it's dead easy making a quick one-use email address to recieve the pic. Job done. Then you can appologise and stop flaming my thread and maybe even perhaps give a bit of advise, which is the only reason I made this thread. :|

Like I said I cannot post links to sites with graphic images, if you just put the words 'size survey' into a search engine it's one of the top results.

Lol ok I'll play. Your TSR name. Email: [email protected]

I like how this has turned into OP offering to send pictures of his penis to people. Ha.

Okay so I've been casually dating a new girl for a couple months or so and everything is going great. She's met most of my friends and what fam I have in the country, we get along really well - lots of flanter and good times, can't really ask for better to be honest.

But, last weekend we came to have sex for the first time, first time we have done anything together too. It started out really great, I could tell she was into it, she didn't seem shy or nervous and it wasn't awkward at all until it came to the actual sex. We went for about 10 minutes before I had to stop because it just wasn't working :/ She told me afterwards it was really painful, and she told me she's not exactly an amateur even though she's only 20.

I've always known I was well endowed, but I never thought it would ever be a negative thing. She is a shortie, at least a foot smaller than me and I'm only 6'1. Anyway, we tried having sex again last night after a night out and the same thing happened. Foreplay isn't the problem either.

I just don't know what I should do. I haven't spoken to my friends about it, not really something I want to go saying to my lad mates "Oh, we've had sex twice for 10 minutes, she hated every second of it". I really like the girl and can see something serious developing. But I don't see how it can work without the sex side of things being okay. Should I just throw away the 2 months and end it now before we waste more of each others time?

Advice would be really appreciated

What if it just won't ever work ? That's the entire reason I made this thread really. I want to think you're right and after a while taking it steady, she'd adapt and we'll be able to have normal sex. But what if physically it just won't work? I'd waste another 2/4/6 months having bad sex. 6 months of bad sex would kill my self esteem. Eugh I just don't know what to do :/

i couldn't care less what you think. I'm not being called a liar. I've had to deal with people like this my entire life.