Obviously, most of us want sex, even if we choose not to have it for religious/personal reasons or whatever.
Has anyone else noticed, however, that those people who are
very obsessed with sex, for example:
-Those guys who spend a ridiculous amount of time reading pick-up artist books/learning "flirting techniques"/girls who spend a ridiculous amount of time working on their appearance so they can pull the hottest guy in the club
-Those people who constantly go on about whoever they've slept with/judge others for not sleeping with others even if it's through choice, and seem to think every moment is an appropriate time to start talking about sex. They're the sorts of people who think there's an age by which you
must have lost your virginity or you're a "loser" or "immature", and that holding out for someone who actually cares about you is stupid because "you're making it out to be a big deal"
-Those people whose descriptions of their relationships are always centred around sex, and who judge and pick their partners solely by how "experienced" they are
-Those guys who judge themselves by "how good they are with women" or those girls who judge themselves by "how many hot guys they've pulled," and who seem to find it hard to talk about the opposite sex or relate to them in any other way
seem to be a little imbalanced as their obsession often leads to other problems in their lives? For example, I know some people like this who find it hard to make meaningful friends of the opposite sex (you can see how hard it is for them) or have meaningful relationships that go beyond "how good was he/she last night?" They often seem to be doing less well in other areas of their lives as well (I know one guy who won't go to the gym or exercise because "why bother getting muscles when you could just become a master pick-up artist"?
)
Sometimes, they haven't even actually
had much sex and you can see how bad they are at "pulling" because the desperation shines through; they're just plain obsessed with it.
Who else has noticed this?