help, falling for the impossible again...

Doesn't sound like there is much you can do. Somehow you need to get over this guy, because keeping the feelings will not be helpful.

I have absolutely Zero experience with relationships, so I might be talking rubbish, but maybe you should try and direct your mind to other things and keep him off your mind.

The reason why no one is answering is because the post is silly.

Saying that I am attracted to gay guys is as useful as saying I am attracted to my car.

What magical formula do you think someone can come up on TSR to help you?

I'm not hoping for a "magical formula" as you put it.

rather hoping for advice on urequited feelings in general. As in have other people been through anything similar and can tell me how they dealt with it?

granted my post isn't very clear ...

It is clear…you are in love with a gay guy.

Something that cannot happen.

It would be like me asking advice on how to go to the moon.

To be honest, I think you have an issue. You need to ask yourself why you keep on falling in love with gay guys. This is not a problem that the majority of the female population has.

The problem isnt about the fact that the guy is gay, its that she has unrequited feelings and wants to deal with the problem.

General advice from me
- Accept it, try and be at peace with it.
- Distance yourself a bit, make yourself more independent from him. Doesn't mean you have to abandon him but you need space to reflect.
- As I said before, put your mind on other things. Try and enjoy yourself and make yourself busy.
- Try and meet other people.

Not sure how useful this would be but I hope I helped

Well as I previously said, when I fall for them it's before I have any idea about their orientation. I can only assume there is something in there personality that I seem to find attractive.

I'm not asking 'how do I make a gay guy fall in love with me?' That would be stupid. I'm asking how to move on. If you feel the post is stupid then don't reply....

At the risk of flamed into oblivion, I find that very, very unlikely.

You are very often able to take an accurate guess about somebodies orientation, from their mannerisms and actions, after knowing them for only a short amount of time.

If you would allow me to take a guess, what you find attractive is that you do not feel threatened, precisely because you know/suspect that they are gay.