How to get my boyfriend to cut his hair?

What you do is you don't control the way he looks and if he likes his hair longer he has every right, cos y'know it being his own hair on his own head, to have it that way.

You can mention you prefer it shorter, no issue with that, but if he decides it likes it longer its his call. If it's a deal breaker then....guess that's it.

Reply 2

Viva Emptiness

If hair was meant to be short then why does it keep on growing :colonhash:

Let it grow wild and free :coma:

Reply 3

ScottishShortiex

18

I have a friend who basically uses suggestion/reverse psychology to get her boyfriend to get his hair cut. Instead of telling him he suits it shorter or that he should get it cut, she starts saying stuff like "aww it must be really annoying to have your fringe in your eyes constantly" and "you must get sweaty and hot with hair that length". She says it always works! :rolleyes:

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Reply 4

RayApparently

21

Say 'please'?

^Not joking if you straight up ask him to cut his hair it might work. Unless he himself strongly believes he looks better with long hair.

Reply 5

fajitamunch

If you're boring, just deny him sex.
If you're more adventurous..... then cut it in his sleep.

Yeah.... don't give a **** what he says, have attitude.

Reply 6

SomePaleChick

12

You don't. It's his hair.

cut it in his sleep

OP

Original post by joey11223

What you do is you don't control the way he looks and if he likes his hair longer he has every right, cos y'know it being his own hair on his own head, to have it that way.

You can mention you prefer it shorter, no issue with that, but if he decides it likes it longer its his call. If it's a deal breaker then....guess that's it.

It is a deal breaker it looks terrible sigh.

Original post by ScottishShortiex

I have a friend who basically uses suggestion/reverse psychology to get her boyfriend to get his hair cut. Instead of telling him he suits it shorter or that he should get it cut, she starts saying stuff like "aww it must be really annoying to have your fringe in your eyes constantly" and "you must get sweaty and hot with hair that length". She says it always works! :rolleyes:

I've tried that he's extremely stubborn

Original post by RayApparently

Say 'please'?

^Not joking if you straight up ask him to cut his hair it might work. Unless he himself strongly believes he looks better with long hair.

I have, he strongly believes he looks better with long hair. It may be worth mentioning he has afro hair that doesn't grow properly into an afro so it looks really messy.

Reply 9

ChocoCoatedLemons

At the end of the day, you can't force him. But I totally understand how you feel - I have a friend who's boyfriend's hair drives me insane, and it annoys her too (although she doesn't outright say it).

Sorry, I honestly don't know what to do. Could his mum maybe tell him?

Reply 10

Original post by Viva Emptiness

If hair was meant to be short then why does it keep on growing :colonhash:

Let it grow wild and free :coma:

PREACH SISTER!

*runs fingers through luscious locks*

...freshly conditioned, of course. :cool:

Reply 11

Crystalz

OP

Original post by ChocoCoatedLemons

At the end of the day, you can't force him. But I totally understand how you feel - I have a friend who's boyfriend's hair drives me insane, and it annoys her too (although she doesn't outright say it).

Sorry, I honestly don't know what to do. Could his mum maybe tell him?

I feel like saying cut your hair or we can't be together. His mum says the same he still doesn't listen :frown:

Reply 12

Viva Emptiness

Original post by joey11223

PREACH SISTER!

*runs fingers through luscious locks*

...freshly conditioned, of course. :cool:

Hello

Reply 13

Rum Ham

You can't force him to do it. I'm sure if he told you to dye your hair a certain colour, you most likely wouldn't do it or would maybe be a bit hurt or offended.

I personally prefer my bf without his beard but I know for a fact he wouldn't ever shave it off but at the end of the day, that's fine because its his face and I love him regardless of how he looks. Besides, I would cut or dye my hair if he asked me to either but its my own choice.

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Reply 14

Crystalz

OP

Original post by Yasmin25

You can't force him to do it. I'm sure if he told you to dye your hair a certain colour, you most likely wouldn't do it or would maybe be a bit hurt or offended.

I personally prefer my bf without his beard but I know for a fact he wouldn't ever shave it off but at the end of the day, that's fine because its his face and I love him regardless of how he looks. Besides, I would cut or dye my hair if he asked me to either but its my own choice.

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He told me he didn't like my ombre hairstyle so i changed it, it's only fair

Reply 15

Original post by Viva Emptiness

Hello

Soz babez I'm already taken. I was asked to have my hair shorter, thought meh I'll give it a go as I hadn't changed hair length in ages (still long by OP's standards), I do it, she says I cut too much off and to make it longer! They don't know what's good until it's gone, that was years ago though, tis fine now. :cool:

Reply 16

Original post by Crystalz

I feel like saying cut your hair or we can't be together.(

Do it. Your relationship ends, he has a crazy story for his mates, you find someone with a buzz cut, everybody wins.

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Viva Emptiness