I'm 20 and have never seen a girl naked... Ask me Anything! (V2)

fancy going to a strippy?

So? You're 20, not 50.

Im in the same boat as you but im not desperate. Im just waiting for that special someone for it to happen

So you made a new account for an AMA? Trollish

Have you seen a naked boy?

Are you ugly?

How do your friends react? or do they not know?
Just curious, you're probably one of the few guys out there who have never seen a real naked girl.

Yeah, I would say just below average. I guess I could improve though.


When I was in secondary school people knew I'd never had a girlfriend and I was bullied every now and then about it. So I try and keep it quiet now. If people ask me about girlfriends I just give a short answer and change the conversation. If people ask me why I don't have a girlfriend I'll just say something like 'Just waiting for the right person' or 'Nah, who would want me? *laugh*'. I will not tell anyone I haven't had sex or anything either. People shouldn't be bothered but unfortunately it makes you look like an outcast and it's any easy target for 'banter'. That's kind of why I am trying to improve myself in the aim of getting a girlfriend. I'm fed up with feeling like the odd one out.

Aw, I'm sorry to hear about that. I didn't know you went through such a hard time. Ah i see, well apparently guys get bullied/mocked for being virgins so I'm not surprised why you choose not to disclose it.
Best of luck though, you seem like a decent guy to me (even though this is a short portrayal of what you're actually like haha).
I know someone who went through the same thing as you,
but now he's being bothered by people around him to see if he has done the deed yet. I just hope you don't get pressured to the point you will find a hooker or something. I hope you get what you want though.

What exactly is the problem here?

Do you want to?

I'm sure if people knew now they wouldn't be as 'in your face' about it as they were in secondary school, but it's still something people find odd. The bit I worry about is the first time I get into a relationship... I'll have no experience haha.


No problem. It's just something people find odd.


Who wouldn't?

No problem. It's just something people find odd.

Possibly not, I know people in university are much more mature.
But doesn't stop with the 'banter'. I reckon you probably didn't get bothered about it, until more than just a few people kept asking you about it/bullying came along. Haha, well - we all start somewhere right? I know it's easier said than done, but your life is none of their business, it doesn't make you a changed man. Do what makes you happy.

It's not odd - just self-propagating.

There are not a number of women out there waiting for you to hit an arbitrary age and then get their tits out for you.

If you don't make it happen, it's not going to happen.

Part of the problem is probably this idea of "awkwardness" that you've invented. Drop it.

why is it so hard to get a girlfriend?

thats one thing i never understand, there's so much supply for the demand out there. i was the last of my friends to get a gf (16), when i decided i wanted one i got one in like a week. got laid a little after that with another girl (which couldve been a threesome unfortunately). im just saying, girls are so easy to catch. why is there so much anxiety for some people when it comes to them?