Thread for people lacking in self-confidence/social life.

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Personally mutlitalented I would do anything which isn't 'man up and hit the gym', which helps to make you you! Whether that is in public or at home for the time being. Simply because I'm sick of the stock response being lift (not that I have anything against lifting, in fact I'm going tomorrow to compensate for a bad day today!)

However anything which isn't sitting around wallowing on a forum may help too :tongue:

I think the gym might not necessarily be that bad for me actually, improve physique & general fitness (I don't really like the term man up though). I think I just need to meet people with a compatible personality with mine, that would help massively :tongue:

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Riku

Original post by Multitalented me

join my thread :tongue:

Reply 22

username1504459

Feeling down today because of this :frown:

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username927016

Original post by Riku

join my thread :tongue:

Which thread? :eyeball:

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IqraHaq

Original post by Multitalented me

I know but well I'm worried people will judge me, it's not that easy to overcome. My mind just creates a barrier that I find hard to break down :redface:

Hello

how are you/how has your day been? :smile:

My day has been long and tiring haha, up from a nap! :lol:

second day at uni and im all :eek:

haha! Start properly on Monday tho! So meh, just meeting new people and all that just now :h:

Wbu? How's your day been?

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username927016

Original post by IqraHaq

My day has been long and tiring haha, up from a nap! :lol:

second day at uni and im all :eek:

haha! Start properly on Monday tho! So meh, just meeting new people and all that just now :h:

Wbu? How's your day been?

What subject are you studying, you settling in alright, made friends? :smile:

You live over there or with parents? I've just been inside mainly on the laptop, did some housework earlier & now just watching some football :h:

Reply 26

TroyAndAbed

Original post by Multitalented me

Did you get the phone numbers of people you talked to/added them or Facebook or something like that yet? :smile:

I'm the same really, like I'd find going to a cafe/restaurant or bowling/theme park on my own boring. I'd like it if I was to share my experiences with others. I still think it's better than my current position of spending most of my non-work time at home on the laptop though :erm:

Not yet but there's still a few more before term starts so maybe I'll ask at the next one. I find knowing how to move from acquaintances to friends really hard. :s-smilie:

I think I find texting/Facebook more stressful than socialising in real life but I need to get used to it as that's how things work now.

I know what you mean about not wanting to go places on your own because it isn't as fun without people to share/bond over the experience with. I spend loads of time just sat on my own on my laptop so I'm hoping to change that. :smile:

Reply 27

IqraHaq

Original post by Multitalented me

What subject are you studying, you settling in alright, made friends? :smile:

You live over there or with parents? I've just been inside mainly on the laptop, did some housework earlier & now just watching some football :h:

Biomedical Science :smile:

and yeh settling in fine! Making friends aha! :biggrin:

and nah, living at home lol! And nice, I've got a day off tmrw so I'm :woo:

buzzing

Hi guys!

Original post by IqraHaq

Biomedical Science :smile:

and yeh settling in fine! Making friends aha! :biggrin:

and nah, living at home lol! And nice, I've got a day off tmrw so I'm :woo:

buzzing

Great to hear that :smile:

My older sister did Biomedical Science at Uni, apparently it's quite a tough degree.

Original post by IbroSaunks

Hi guys!

Welcome

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IbroSaunks

Original post by Multitalented me

Great to hear that :smile:

My older sister did Biomedical Science at Uni, apparently it's quite a tough degree.

Welcome :hello:

Thanks, what are you guys talking about at the moment?

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IqraHaq

Original post by Multitalented me

Great to hear that :smile:

My older sister did Biomedical Science at Uni, apparently it's quite a tough degree.

Welcome :hello:

Hahaha thanks for that! :eek3:

now I be freaking out! :tongue:

so do you study? Or work? Or age? :tongue:

Reply 32

IqraHaq

Original post by IbroSaunks

Thanks, what are you guys talking about at the moment?

Life

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username1391301

May as well drop in and say hello. :biggrin:

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IqraHaq

Original post by Hachik0

May as well drop in and say hello. :biggrin:

Hey

how's you?

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username1391301

Original post by IqraHaq

Hey

how's you?

Very well thanks and yourself?

Hello!

Original post by Hachik0

Very well thanks and yourself?

Yus, pretty good :biggrin:

jus chilling you?

Original post by tk1993

Hello!

Heyheyhey

i dont even know why I'm welcoming people in here :rofl:

it's not even my thread LOL

Reply 38

tk1993

Original post by IqraHaq

Yus, pretty good :biggrin:

jus chilling you?

Heyheyhey :biggrin:

i dont even know why I'm welcoming people in here :rofl:

it's not even my thread LOL

Well it's all very welcoming so thank you :tongue:

Reply 39

tomtjl

Original post by Multitalented me

Yeah could do that :smile:

A bit apprehensive about going alone though, even if I were to meet people I'd be worried I'd get lost or I turn up & no one's there lol :erm:

This. So much. Everytime I meet up with my friends this is what goes through my mind "what if I get there and nobody else shows up and they've pranked me" or something similar.

OT: Hi.