hi,
i've always been quite a relaxed student, quietly getting the work done but not putting in insane hours, bunking a few seminars to do something fun instead, maybe sacrificing a first in an essay because i went out for dinner rather than going to the library. i've comfortably gotten through my undergrad (and now finishing my masters) with a high 2.1 and high merits/distinctions from decent unis.
Now I'm thinking of doing a PhD, although a lot things i've read and a lot of things I've heard have kinda terrified me into thinking it's going to be three years of thesis, thesis, thesis, crazy hours, stressed out, sacrificing life to write the dissertation. I'm obviously prepared to put a lot of hours in and get the work done - especially because I'd be passionate about the subject but I really don't want to spend three years of my life manic and panicked and not being able to do nice things for the sake of my diss.
I don't want to go into academia as a career, i'm going into the museum sector so am planning a phd to get a good curatorial job and also spend another few years being *free* from the confines of a 9-5 office.
so i guess my question is, is it possible to do a chilled out phd where you can go to the library for a good few hours, put a decent chunk of work in, write a decent thesis while still being able to go on holiday take plenty of evenings off and not have a nervous breakdown? Or is it not right for me, and should I just not do it and go into the world of the 9-5s?