I don't know what to do.

I've been in this exact situation, but it's really hard to end the friendship. If you feel like you're not getting anywhere, though, it might be best to let things drift apart slowly - if she's not making the effort to reciprocate then this may even be what she wants too. These things happen and people grow apart all the time. Good luck with whatever you decide to do

Hello, I don't want to end the friendship, but it just seems like she does not care whether she loses me or not. I feel that people who are close to me do not reciprocate effort whatsoever, why? What am i doing wrong? I am very sorry you were in the same exact situation as me.

It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong - the problem seems to be with them. Don't worry about if you've done something to upset them, you'll just end up trying too hard, and at the end of the day it's not worth your hassle. If you don't want to end it with her, I would say ask her if there's something wrong (in a nice way, just to find out why she's being so distant with you). If she's not forthcoming, then remind yourself that it's not your fault and you've tried, and maybe take a step back while still being friends with her. I ended up just initiating conversations less and found that my friend eventually started to reciprocate more

Dont be with people who dont care about you , it will only hurt you even more in the long term trust me

What if i like their friendship?

Sometimes things just aren't meant to be. It's glaringly obvious that she doesn't care about you, and that really sucks, but there's not really anything you can do. All that's going to happen is you're going to exhaust yourself even more, and start to doubt yourself more and more. Some people are just like this, you can't change them, so you have to drop them, for your own sake. It's already pretty clear from your posts that it's starting to take its toll and you're blaming yourself. You need to get away from this person, or you'll end up making yourself ill. Trust me, I've been there.

It's never fun to end a friendship. You're going to be sad, and you're going to grieve - that's just biology. But grief is temporary, you move on. A toxic friendship will just keep hurting you and hurting you until you're forced to break it off anyway. Think of it like this - in the olden days, when someone got an infected wound, they had to cut the limb off to save the person's life.

Your friendship with this person is infected, it's time to let it go.

Sorry if this is harsh, but this kind of thing is never not-harsh. I wish someone had told me this when I was in a similar situation.

Good luck with whatever happens though.

a similar situation happened to me a few months ago , and honestly you care much more in the frienship then they care , if anything , you dont mean a lot to them at all and they probably wouldnt care if you had a friendship or not