Posting this in the Cambridge forum because I have an offer from Cambridge so it directly affects my offer...
I wondered if someone could help me.
I’m having a complete nightmare if I’m being honest.
A quick overview of me:
I’m in Upper Sixth so I’m taking my a-levels in about 2 months time.
I’ve got uni offers with very high grades which I’ve accepted. However my work in my a levels has been significantly hindered over the last year and a half.
Last year for the second half of my lower sixth year I suffered from severe glandular fever. This made me extremely exhausted all the time and I found that I was not concentrating on lessons and so I got behind.
Then this October, my grandad passed away and again, this significantly affected my concentration levels.
Finally, this February my mum decided to leave my dad and get a divorce and it’s turned so hostile. This last one is really affecting me now as I try to revise over the holidays. Not only is the environment at home constantly on edge due to the constant arguing but it’s also having a psychological effect on me and my concentration.
All of these things combined have had a very significant impact on my A levels. I know it sounds really pathetic but these things have been emotionally draining and have genuinely had a large impact on my ability to work and keep on top of my subjects.
I was wondering if there is anything I can do about it?
Should I contact my universities and let them know of my unfortunate circumstances?
Should I contact exam boards and try to apply for mitigating circumstances (I don’t know much about this but I don’t know if I fit the “criteria”)?
I can’t speak to my mum about this as she will feel so guilty for leaving my dad and feeling like it’s her fault. I can’t speak to my dad cuz he will blame my mum. And I don’t particularly want to talk about it to teachers as school as I feel a bit pathetic and feel like I’ll just be seen as begging for unnecessary help.
I’m so stuck what to do! My exam boards are AQA and OCR if that helps and my firm uni is Cambridge and my insurance is Durham.
I’m just so worried what will happen if I miss my grades because I have no idea what my Home situation will be like next year and it terrifies me and when I try to work it’s all I can think about.
Posted as anonymous because I’m quite embarrassed about the whole situation and about the fact I’m kicking up a fuss but I would appreciate ANY advice anyone could give me!
Sorry for the essay
Thanks in advance