Why are you still single?Watch
i also have incredibly high standards, takes a lot to impress me tbh. must be well read, thoughtful, learns sh*t for fun. i know that's a weird thing to be attracted to but there you go. lol
For real though it's a number of things. I'm not that confident approaching new people outside of work (I have literally the most social job in the world). I work almost every week night (5-8 ish) and mornings at the weekend. I have social anxiety, self esteem issues, and will compare myself to everyone (deleting my insta helped a lot). On a good day I'm probably a 6/10 at most.
Also I almost never catch feelings for someone: have fancied 3 guys in my life, and around all of them I turned into a nervous wreck who can't string a sentence together. Currently crushing on someone I'm 90% sure I have no chance with.
i get 100s of adds on my apps everyday. men approach me and stare when I walk by. But no one wants to be my boyfriend. they just want sex. they abandon me when I say no 😢 it really hurts.
2. I barley know anyone here making it difficult to network or meet new people
3. I have more important buisness to attend to
4. I have too many expectations >: D
EDIT: Oh wait, I have had relationships in the past but I'm single at the moment. But yeah some of those past experiences have to do with my reasons, especially my expectations