I wasn’t sure where to talk about this but I decided to do it here. My boyfriend does not eat normally. He does not eat enough and he eats all the wrong things and I am worried about him. For example, he only eats 2 meals a day, normally some cereal (Frosties) and milk and then for dinner he’ll either have a pizza, burger, sausage roll or some pasta. He will sometimes snack on chocolate and crisps during the day too. He has little variety in his diet, only eats vegetables when my mum makes him when he comes to my house and is unwilling to try new foods at all. He also seems to have gag reflex when it comes to eating certain things, especially vegetables. When we used to go to school together, he often wouldn’t eat lunch.
I’m even more concerned for him in this lockdown because he’s not at college which means he’s eating even less as he doesn’t get the free college breakfast anymore and he’s not getting his weekly dose of vegetables when he comes to mine as we are social distancing. I’m worried for his health, he doesn’t look overly skinny but he looks underweight. Every time I approach him about it he gets defensive and says he’s only had 2 meals a day all his life. He cooks for himself but his whole family doesn’t eat particularly well either. When reading his old school reports, they also mentioned how he refused to try new foods.
I need some advice, how do I get through to him and make him see that he is neglecting his health? I’ve made lots of good suggestions to him but he always has excuses.