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Feel so guilty!

I have snuck my own card details and put them on my apple pay because my parents don't let me have my card without their permission. I understand they want me to save but I'm actually good with handling money and this makes me feel so guilty. When I want to hang out with friends my mother makes me feel guilty because I'm not hanging out with her, even hanging out with my sister she gets in a strop. I don't see her problem. I go out with her so much and have to miss out on things to entertain her. She let my sister go out to a sleepover but not me because she wanted company. But I can't miss out on things whicy I've always done to suit her

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Anonymous #1

Also is it disrespectful that I have used my card on my phone with out them knowing? (I'm 18 in a couple months)

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Anonymous #2

wont they find out when your bank statement gets sent home

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

wont they find out when your bank statement gets sent home

They don't look at my bank statement anymore but they do phone up and keep records but I just want my own card and be a normal 17 year old going on 18 buying things if I need when out or online like all my friends do. I find it unfair