Healing Stage

If you are in a relationship you should be supporting each other and working through the issues together. If you are going to address your problems independently and have one person dictate how things progress from there, I can't see it ending well...

How has it got to this stage, anyway?

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Original post by Surnia

If you are in a relationship you should be supporting each other and working through the issues together. If you are going to address your problems independently and have one person dictate how things progress from there, I can't see it ending well...

Yeah we’ve addressed our issues my partner says I need to learn and anticipate being alone. What are things I can do in the meantime to have my mind off her.

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Yeah we’ve addressed our issues my partner says I need to learn and anticipate being alone. What are things I can do in the meantime to have my mind off her.

Why would she tell you to anticipate being alone; is she thinking of breaking up? Why would you not want to think of her?

This sounds very strange.

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Original post by Surnia

Why would she tell you yo anticipate being g alome; is she thinking of breaking up? Why would you not want to think of her?

This sounds very strange.

Well before this I used to like meet her like every single day but now she wants to at a time that’s best for the both of us and when we are free to meet.

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It’s the only way to rekindle our relationship she wants it to work just like myself we’ve been together 9 months but last couple of weeks, and most recently due to a argument things have not been the same as it used to and we both want to be a better person for the other accepting what we are responsible for and working around it.

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Original post by Anonymous

It’s the only way to rekindle our relationship she wants it to work just like myself we’ve been together 9 months but last couple of weeks, and most recently due to a argument things have not been the same as it used to and we both want to be a better person for the other accepting what we are responsible for and working around it.

This is all towards the long term, we want to get married eventually and whilst in the same house same roof we would never want a point for neither of us not to talk or be on the same page.

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Original post by Anonymous

This is all towards the long term, we want to get married eventually and whilst in the same house same roof we would never want a point for neither of us not to talk or be on the same page.

So you'd see each other every day and have to work out any issues face-to-face. Why not now?

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Original post by Surnia

So you'd see each other every day and have to work out any issues face-to-face. Why not now?

Well it’s impacted us both mentally, we have past traumas to resolve, and we spoke this through and that’s what the both of us want and if she was okay with that which she was and I was we agreed with it recently it’s just been arguments, and accusation and words and stuff said that 4 years ago she’d never say having us been together for 9 months

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