Why does he still keep contacting me ?

So I used to talk to this guy a lot long phone convos/FT ….. I never met up with him despite him begging me, due to us getting in arguments and him having to many red flags. Make a long story short he was super into. Anyways still months later he still contacts me?? He recently went on a spam and like all of my old and recent photos on social media within 20 seconds?? He still asks if he can see me ? He recently told me that he misses me. He never misses a social media post or story, and interacts with all of mine. He’s a good looking guy so I’m confused on why he still contacts me if I haven’t met up with him ever??

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Dunnig Kruger

How much empathy is he showing towards you right now? Almost none.
That's how much empathy you should show him in return. He's a guy that dwells in negative moods and states of mind. That's not the sort of guy you should try to relate to.

Aim to hook up with a man that has a lot more positive inner world. And look to understand him and get inside his head and heart.