Left me on seen

So, I’ve started a thing with a guy. It’s been about 10 days. I’m testing the waters. We get on really well. Laugh a lot. But it’s not clear whether he likes me as a friend or more. He’s left me on seen and then put a story with his buddies, in a bar. So I didn’t double text or anything. He hasn’t wished me good night either. My last text was a question, but it’s nothing too serious, just asking about funny things that happened to him. I’m thinking to see whether he texts tomorrow. If not , moving on. What do you think guys? I’ve hinted in a clear way that I like him. I haven’t said it directly but surely he knows. It is obvious.

Reply 1

Meheraj

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Original post by Anonymous

So, I’ve started a thing with a guy. It’s been about 10 days. I’m testing the waters. We get on really well. Laugh a lot. But it’s not clear whether he likes me as a friend or more. He’s left me on seen and then put a story with his buddies, in a bar. So I didn’t double text or anything. He hasn’t wished me good night either. My last text was a question, but it’s nothing too serious, just asking about funny things that happened to him. I’m thinking to see whether he texts tomorrow. If not , moving on. What do you think guys? I’ve hinted in a clear way that I like him. I haven’t said it directly but surely he knows. It is obvious.

If he doesn't prioritise you the way you do to him, then for sure it's better to dump him.

Reply 2

Max1357913

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Original post by Anonymous

So, I’ve started a thing with a guy. It’s been about 10 days. I’m testing the waters. We get on really well. Laugh a lot. But it’s not clear whether he likes me as a friend or more. He’s left me on seen and then put a story with his buddies, in a bar. So I didn’t double text or anything. He hasn’t wished me good night either. My last text was a question, but it’s nothing too serious, just asking about funny things that happened to him. I’m thinking to see whether he texts tomorrow. If not , moving on. What do you think guys? I’ve hinted in a clear way that I like him. I haven’t said it directly but surely he knows. It is obvious.

Guy here - some of us are oblivious. Trust me. So I wouldn’t just assume he knows - it’s much easier to be direct.

Is this someone you know in person?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

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Original post by Max1357913

Guy here - some of us are oblivious. Trust me. So I wouldn’t just assume he knows - it’s much easier to be direct.

Is this someone you know in person?

No

Reply 4

Surnia

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You can't 'hint in a clear way'; it's a hint or it's clear.

Pick up the phone and talk or arrange to meet! You can't get enough feel for a person just by words on a screen.