Porn/searching up only fans

So my boyfriend continues to look up certain people from only fans to use it to you know.. he doesn’t pay for it but he searches it up and looks on images stuff like that. I caught him once and he got very upset at me. Last night I caught it again and I just don’t understand because the first time I found out we had a conversation and told me to initiate more even though I been but now I been trying so much harder. So I thought everything was better. I try hard like I would put lingerie and he fell asleep :frown:

he says he’s soooo attracted to me and happy with me but I don’t understand why he does it still when I’m home and want it to :frown:

I honestly want sex more than he does but he chooses any type of women online over me. I’m sorry :frown:

maybe I’m just looking for opinions I just feel insecure now and I been asking if we can make our sex life better but he can’t seem to let that go

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I strongly believe that if you've had a conversation with him about you feeling uncomfortable with him using only fans to watch other naked girls online when you two are in a relationship, then he is the problem. You are worthy of love and if he is failing to make you feel that way (physically and emotionally), and instead focusing his attention on other girls online then you may just have to question his fidelity and commitment to you. If he sounds agitated or tries to insinuate that you are being insecure even after another conversation then know this he is not worth your stress and sadness. If you feel worried that he is going to become angry or avoid speaking to you by brining this up then it is time to cut off ties with him, it may be difficult but will be better in the long run.

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So my boyfriend continues to look up certain people from only fans to use it to you know.. he doesn’t pay for it but he searches it up and looks on images stuff like that. I caught him once and he got very upset at me. Last night I caught it again and I just don’t understand because the first time I found out we had a conversation and told me to initiate more even though I been but now I been trying so much harder. So I thought everything was better. I try hard like I would put lingerie and he fell asleep :frown:

he says he’s soooo attracted to me and happy with me but I don’t understand why he does it still when I’m home and want it to :frown:

I honestly want sex more than he does but he chooses any type of women online over me. I’m sorry :frown:

maybe I’m just looking for opinions I just feel insecure now and I been asking if we can make our sex life better but he can’t seem to let that go

I have previously watched porn, but if I am in a relationship I consider that completely out of bounds. If he knows your boundaries and is actively searching for this stuff and neglecting your sexual needs I'd argue that he's basically cheating on you. Good luck!!

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